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I have read about the Love Bank inventory in the SAA book discussion thread here. I have come across this inventory in Dr Harley's book on councelling couples and have filled it out myself twice now.
From what I understand, Dr Harley uses it to gage the success of his clients fulfilling each other's EN and avoiding LB.
For those of you who have had direct councelling with marriagebuilders and are using this inventory, could you tell me if couples should use this inventory themselves to gage how successful they are in their marriage recovery? Or is it a tool that only the councillors should use?
me: FBW, 52 y
FWH: 57 y, EA
D-D 14 Feb 2013
M: 25 years
DD 23 y
DD 14 y
H: divorced, 3 adult c
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I believe Dr. Harley does not recommend that couples use this tool and even that they shouldn't know each other's scores until the conclusion of recovery.
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