Originally Posted by kstockett
just compensation is something that won't hurt you. A job loss would hurt him, in his opinion.
But it hurts you, his wife, seeing his OW around and triggering all the time.

Has he even looked for another job?

FWW/BW (me)
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.