Originally Posted by LeoNrochesterMI
Can one install any of these spyware systems in a iPhone that we have no physical access to ?

No you always need physical access to the device to put spyware onto it. But think outside the box. Maybe you can use a backup to see what is going on. Some people have been able to 'lose' or 'damage' the phone. Then you buy your spouse a new one with spyware quietly installed :-)

Other devices that will give you the information you need are a voice activated recorder hidden where your spouse normally uses the device and a GPS hidden in the car.

Obviously the most important thing is to not let your spouse know you are on to her. That will just make the detective work harder.

3 adult children
Divorced - he was a serial adulterer
Now remarried, thank you MB
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