HI lori [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>I'm right with you.<BR>H still worked with ow for a long time after the affair and it didn't really made a difference in our recovery.<BR>I know that other people might have different experiencies, but in mine, the working together did not prevent recovery.<BR>Hugs [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>Kat<P>------------------<BR>Each and everyone of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought, and the gift of understanding.