As Rejected said, you CAN come up with a saving answer to : "Is my butt too big?"<P>The killer question is: "Does my butt look big in these pants/this dress?"<P>Only an idiot would say "yes", so we won't go there. But there's no good way to say "no" either, that she won't twist around to something like: "Oh, but it looks big in all my other pants, right?"<P>Boys, when you hear the question, you're already dead.