Sombody stick a fork in me I think I am done.

Why is it that the WS doesn't get the big picture? They live in denial, I can see the fog in there eye's. The WS talks about abuse, issue's from yrs ago, that have nothing to do with the BS, but yet it was transported on to them, and now there supposed to live with the pain for the rest of there live's?

The WS cant even answer simple question's. Why cant they see that the grass is still green where the BS is standing? Will it stay green long enough for WS to finally see that it is green?

Why does the OP think they are justified and have the right to there action's? Do they even know what all the issue's are? Do they truly care? What give's the OP the right to intefere with someone else's M, someone else's children, someone else's life?

The BS end's up with two choices, stay in a M that is a lie, or end the M and really know that it was a lie, some choices, lose and lose some more.

The BS has read,learned and changed to try and save there M, but if the WS does not participate, it all become's part of the lie, and now the BS has done what the WS has, decieved them selve's.

dred,

Just my opinion, but I think that people give it because they are in so much pain themselves. To give it might make them feel lighter in their own load. Their own inner turmoil leads them to behave in such a fashion. Afterall, when we feel love we want to share that love. When we feel pain the same thing applies.

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