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#1326321 05/31/99 10:21 AM
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Saskia<BR>It's nice to be able to control those images a little isn't it?<BR>If anybody else has any good suggestions please give them!!!

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wasstubborn<BR>Great idea!!! This has really helped me sooooo much. This also made me realize how much "power" I had given to the ow. I don't post to often, but I've follow your posts. Our stories are very similar, in both the situations and length of time. thanks again....really the boost I've needed!!!

#1326323 06/01/99 02:21 PM
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too sad<BR>I'm glad this gave you a boost. I'm having a bit of a crappy day today but it always cheers me up to know I helped someone!!!

#1326324 06/08/99 02:42 PM
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Just wanted to say thank you for this post. My H even used it. See she was looking at some t-shirts in a store. She went in with my H to buy our children gifts from him from Nashville. My H said "I like this shirt" and bought it with two toys for our son. He put the shirt in his bag and was only thinking of me when he bought it. I know she must have been thinking he bought it for her and how pissed she must have been when she reliezed it was for his wife. That event actually lead to the end of the affair, because then she started playing MORE games with him. Trying to make him jealous with the other men at the conference. What a SLUT!!! I am really getting the hang of this.. I really really love this idea. Monique.<BR>Just wanted to bring this great idea up again!

#1326325 06/08/99 03:40 PM
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Monique!!!<P>You got it!! YES!!!<P>Now he can't say he's worried about those images! You are gonna have the tools to replace those too!<P>You two are going to have a fine marriage.<P>Boy that ow was a real weirdo... I can see why your husband just loves you so much. What a cutie you are!!!<P>Connie

#1326326 06/08/99 03:43 PM
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I am so very glad that while I was here I started a post that has been so much help to so many people!!!<BR>Take care everyone and keep using those images to your advantage!!!!

#1326327 06/22/99 02:17 PM
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I found it for you TnT<P>for everyone.....<BR> <A HREF="http://www2.bluemountain.com/cards/box8595b/xwx9yxkwsijrpa.htm" TARGET=_blank>http://www2.bluemountain.com/cards/box8595b/xwx9yxkwsijrpa.htm</A> <P>Happy Day to Everyone!

#1326328 06/22/99 03:14 PM
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thanks a million WS:<BR>Have you people thought of this?imagine a hotel room and your H telling OW "sorry i can not stay longer, i have to go home!!HE HE<P>and weekends H is always with us! Imagine OW fridays (hehe) soo lonly..<P>and.. OW waiting for H to leave us and after 4 months she is still waiting.<P>and i have a nicer car and a very very nice HOUSE!!<P>and i am size 5 !!!and she is not.HE HE she must hate me for that!!<P>I love to imagine OW waiting and waiting and waiting....<P>This is really fun!!!<P><BR>thanks WS you made my day!!

#1326329 06/22/99 08:20 PM
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WS:<BR>It has been a while and I was doing ok. I slipped real bad. I will try your system... I have him but he is so distant I need a self esteem boost. <BR>

#1326330 06/22/99 09:53 PM
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This image would be real sweet ... The OW with smeared runny makeup , Bad breath, Rotten teeth, Black racoon eyes and 50 lbs overweight, itching with flea bites , and reaking of alchol sweat ! Tee Hee Of course the morning after when H wakes up to see her ! LOL<P>------------------<BR><BR>Katana<BR>

#1326331 06/23/99 11:32 AM
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Thanks so much, WS!!! I needed a good laugh! I always thought of her as successfully picking up her pieces and moving on to the next man-even though I heard otherwise. Now I envision her in the state I've heard she's been in. I also think she's nervous because she thinks I can turn her in if I find out! (She was with him at her office during office hours, missed an appointment with a child for it!) I will once again turn that over in my mind!!! HHHHEEEE HHHHEEEE !!!!<P>------------------<BR>Chick's<BR>

#1326332 06/24/99 03:29 PM
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I like this idea, and I love all the positive messages each of you give to each other. I an new to this and going through each post and reply, all I see is positive healthy replies, it makes me feel good that people in this world to care to help others they don't even know or have even seen.<P>Love covereth, Proverbs 10:12

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I have an image of the cops all of a sudden pounding on the door of the motel room where my W and her OM are going at it. The cops break open the door and bust the two of the them (who don't even have time to get dressed) for possession and use of cocaine and him for dealing cocaine. I'm REAL interested when I get her phone call to come down and post bail for her at the excuses she manages to come up with for being arrested! Boy, does she spin a real tale to make her sound innocent. She just happened to be in the vicinity, she was having lunch at the motel restaurant with a friend and the cops arrested her by mistake. I gently point out, as I pick her up at the police station, that that's not the story they told ME.<P>--Wex

#1326334 08/30/99 09:08 AM
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Pulling this up for the newcomers.

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