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old dog learnig a new life!
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Why do you think that is?
What thoughts come to mind when you are in the mood that prevent you from wanting to make love to your wife?
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“Righteous and at the same time a sinner.”
(Martin Luther)
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Have you sought professional help?
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Is it possible you view her not as the same woman anymore--but more like the wife who was married to your dad?? (kind of like the role of your mother, instead of the woman you married?)
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“Righteous and at the same time a sinner.”
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I've only been married for one month but I've already seen a change in how I view my wife sexually. This actually started before we were married. I think it is because my wife is the first person that I've been sexually active with that I really respected and loved. Many of the other women that I was with before my wife were really just sexual objects to me and I didn't really have respect or significant feelings for them. I think it is a transition and I'm not overly concerned with it, although I don't really have any answers...
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something to think about.. I can definitly relate to what you feel. and the respect thing.
and NO! I dont view her as my mother!
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