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OK, my H was gone all day yesterday with a friend of his (it's OK; this friend doesn't screw around). H got home at about 11 pm last night. I was POd because he hadn't hugged or kissed me at all yesterday--well, actually, he'd only kissed me 3 times since Monday. [Linked Image]<BR>Anyway, I didn't lovebust and didn't comment on the lack of affection. Today, he made up for the lack of affection today. [Linked Image] [Linked Image]<P>Now, here's the weird part. H told me that he took a Viagra last night, but went to sleep in his chair. I asked him where he got the Viagra. He said that another friend of his gave it to him. The friend told H that he'd heard that H couldn't "go very long." I asked H where the friend would get something like that, because I had never commented on our lovemaking in anyway. H said, "I don't know. I told him that I hadn't had any trouble--that I damn near f*** myself to death."<P>My H has had trouble being able to make love to me, but that problem hasn't occurred in about 6 months or so. And, yes, he does "go on" for quite a while--I think because of his health condition.<P>Now, since I haven't discussed our sex life with anyone (and H knows that I would rather die than have anyone (especially OW) know that he didn't want to have sex with me.), who could have been talking????? Could it be (gasp!!!) the OW?????? [Linked Image] It's possible, as our friend is also a friend of hers.<P>So!! Do you guys think the OW may have done a major love-buster????? She was pretty angry, so could she call herself getting back at H for dumping her?<P>I fervently hope that she has been running off at the mouth. That is one thing guaranteed to really upset my H and make him very angry. [Linked Image]<P><BR><p>[This message has been edited by Sweetpea (edited August 16, 1999).]

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hahaahha, i think it would make ALL men angry! boy, i sure HOPE it was her who mentioned it. Is *that* something men usually discuss? hmmmm

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Well, being the "macho man" that he is, I don't think H would be likely to confide any problems like that to other folks.<P>However, it does come to mind that maybe some of the problems last year were due to undiagnosed diabetes---and maybe he couldn't do much better with OW than with me. [Linked Image] [Linked Image] [Linked Image]<P> I've wondered if the affair was an effort to reassure himself of his manhood--to see if he performed better with a new partner. I just wish he would talk to me about things that bother him.<P>Anyway, H hasn't expressed any anger toward me. In fact, he hasn't expressed any anger at all about somebody telling his friend that. That's sorta weird to me. But, I figure that he's not expressing anger toward me because he knows I didn't do it, and he's not expressing anger toward anyone else, cuz then I'd know he'd be screwing around. Like I don't already KNOW it now!! HAH!!<P>Oh, well, he's been really sweet and affectionate to me all day yesterday and this morning. Maybe because he knows that I wasn't the one who blabbed about the problem he had. [Linked Image]<p>[This message has been edited by Sweetpea (edited August 16, 1999).]


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