From Greg Behrendt's book

~he's not asking you out.

~he's not calling you.

~he's not dating you.

~he's not having sex with you.

~he's having sex with someone else.

~he only wants to see you when he's drunk.

~he doesn't want to marry you.

~he's breaking up with you.

~he's disappeared on you.

~he's married (and other insane variations of being unavailable)

~he's a selfish jerk, a bully, or a really big freak.


Me, 43
DS18, DD12
Divorce final May 10, 2007