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Re: Heard From First Love?
thndrnltng #1561502 01/13/06 05:41 PM
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LiftedUp -

It takes courage to come here and tell your story - I for one see it as a tremendously good thing that you told you husband. Only with honesty can you deal with this and put it behind you.

Dealing with the hurt and pain of his affair is hard - I know too well the mistrust, the hurt, the anger and betrayl. It takes time, it takes love, and it takes the willingness to stick it out even when the hurt seems to much to bear. You can get to the other side.

Blessings - Jan

ME - 46 yo
exH - 45 yo
Married 20 years
Three children 19, 15, 12
Multiple affairs, D-days, NC, and recoveries - all false
Divorce final May 10, 2007

Each day is a new lesson on forgiveness and peace
Re: Heard From First Love?
snickers64 #1561503 01/13/06 05:53 PM
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LiftedUp -

It takes courage to come here and tell your story - I for one see it as a tremendously good thing that you told you husband. Only with honesty can you deal with this and put it behind you.

Dealing with the hurt and pain of his affair is hard - I know too well the mistrust, the hurt, the anger and betrayl. It takes time, it takes love, and it takes the willingness to stick it out even when the hurt seems to much to bear. You can get to the other side.

Blessings - Jan

I am only trying to work thru lots of dificult feelings. It is not easy to come here and pour out my heart just to have people beat up on me. I try to be kind and take peoples feelings in to consideration here. You can be nice and still get a point across.

Thank you for your kind words.

Me (BS) - 38 Him (WS) - 40 DDay - 7/6/04 Seperated - 5/26/04 - 8/9/4 In Recovery The Lord told me to Press On!
Re: Heard From First Love?
LiftedUp #1561504 02/16/06 09:47 AM
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MRSWONDERING.
I was reading through this thread and I would
very much like to read your story. (And learn from it.)

Could you post your Marriage Board thread http:
address here; with your journey from past to present
on into recovery?

Thank you very much
Mary
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