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Alluring....where've you been?
#1582293 02/06/06 10:59 AM
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Just wondering if you have met "T" yet.
How's the new job?
Need updates!
Re: Alluring....where've you been?
Lexxxy #1582294 02/06/06 07:46 PM
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eh...I've been so busy that I don't know if I am coming or going.

I check in every day but usually too exhausted to reply to anything. Still haven't met "T" in person. We are still talking almost daily. "J" and I are still talking also and "visiting" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/wink.gif" alt="" />

Job is going great but like I said...I am usually mentally and physically drained by the time 5:00 rolls around.

I'm glad you missed me enough to holler out to me.

What's new with you?

Me, 43
DS18, DD12
Divorce final May 10, 2007
Re: Alluring....where've you been?
AllurinGreenEyes #1582295 02/06/06 07:51 PM
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Glad to hear your job is going well Alluring!

K.

Divorced 12/17/2003 Formerly KEB1205 Reg 9/02
Re: Alluring....where've you been?
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I was thinking too.
Regards.

I'm not Belonging to Nowhere anymore! :-)
Re: Alluring....where've you been?
Belonging2Myself #1582297 02/07/06 02:48 PM
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Thanks girls!!

Today is my day off and I fell back to sleep on the couch after the kids left for school until noon....LOL What a slug!!! LOL

Finally convinced the STBX to file taxes together one final time. He was really being a jerk about it until I figured each of ours out separately and then jointly and he seeing that he would only get $49 back by filing married filing single...LOL

So one more task to get him to do now and the divorce will FINALLY be done!!! He seems to think I'm not entitled to any of his 401K and it's just a matter of his attorney confirming what I have told him and what his payroll manager at HIS employer has told him before he will believe it. Oy Vey!!

Anyways...everything else is good...I'm feeling better about things every day...especially being financially stable. It's a good feeling!!

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Me, 43
DS18, DD12
Divorce final May 10, 2007
Re: Alluring....where've you been?
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I'm curious about how J got himself back in the picture.

T seemed like a much better option, is anything happening there?

I'm so glad to hear about your job! Sometimes being busy and challenged is very exhilarating!

I'm home sick today...trying to get better cuz I have some special plans tonight. Me and my 3 kids are going to a hockey game. My youngest gets to skate out at the beginning of the game with the team flag, with all the pro's skating around him! Proud momma moment!
Re: Alluring....where've you been?
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aahhhhh sounds like a great once in a lifetime moment!!!

J and I just started slowly talking again and things just kind of evolved...again...lol

T isn't making much of an effort to come visit...although he is still calling almost once a day.

I'm not too worried about either of them...whatever happens happens...ya know? I'm happy just the way things are for now.

HUGS!

Me, 43
DS18, DD12
Divorce final May 10, 2007

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