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Finally managed to get signed up under a variant of my original name, Twiisty. Those who remember me, will know who I am. Update for me, I suppose. Mr."T" and I ended up divorced. The financial strain of OC and OW was too much for us. Long story short, I moved from Louisiana to Pennsylvania nine months before Katrina hit, so there are some silver linings to every cloud. I'm now the single mom to my five kids and am in school full time earning my bachelor's degree as a Paralegal. I hope to go to law school eventually and specialize in...what else? Family law. heh heh.... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" /> There's lots to tell, but I'll have to post more later. Some of it is good and some sad, but all moving on. I didn't realize how much Mr. "T"'s infidelity would affect my future relationship and I'll get into my update later. Just wanted to pop in and shout out to everyone and I'll be back later. Pops, it's good to see your name onboard...hope you and yours are well...and I hope to see my oldies, but goodies soon. Love to you y'all... Twiisty
Divorced
COM:Three (7,6 and 3 years old)
COPM:Two(13, 12 years old)
D-day 05/01/01
Recovery 05/01-10/04
Divorce Finalized 04/2006
Oc is 7 and still NC on ex-h's part.
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Twiisty!
Hey no time but great to hear from you!
Sounds like you're moving ahead and I for one am so proud of you....
We last spoke when you moved so it's good to get an update!
All is well here.
Looking forward to reading your update.
love
Debi
Married 3-02-74
D-day 11-13-00
Recovered very well now~
N/C
Me and H both 55
1 beautiful granddaughter, a wonderful son, and daughter-in-law...(like a daughter~)
God answers all prayers in His own way...in His own time.
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Wow, that's incredible T. You and CD can be partners-in-law.
Best wishes!!
J
Do not wait for leaders; do it alone, person to person. -Mother Teresa
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Hello Twiisty,
I look forward to reading your update. I am what you would consider a newbie, but I've been here for awhile. God bless you.
April - Affair
May - OW tells H that she's pregnant
June - OW's H calls to inform me of affair and pregnancy
August - Present - Working diligently on marriage. In counseling at church.
December - OC Born - NO CONTACT!
May - DNA TEST NEGATIVE - MY H IS NOT THE FATHER. THANK GOD.
My new Title - BS w/ OCS (Betrayed Wife with Other Child Scare)
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Hey Girl I haven't been on MB in a long time! I saw your post today. How are the kids? Send me a email if you still have my info it's the same.
Tee
Unsure about a lot of things but not how to achieve personal happiness...
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Hi Twiisty!
Glad to hear things are going well for you. It's tryin4sainthood, remember we met once for dinner back in LA? Anyway, H and I are still together. Our oc did not get out when Katrina hit and get this, ow and oc are now living in CA in the same town as inlaws!!! Long story short, mil decided to do her "Christian" duty and took in ow and her kids for 3 weeks, the church that married h and I now pay ow and oc's rent for 1 year, free tuition for the kids to the church school and mil and fil have extended their family to include them in holidays, etc. Needless to say, I am estranged from in laws and h is not speaking to his mother. Ow is still up to her usual crap and we have nc with oc and very little with inlaws now. The truth will come out when oc is older, but for now he is caught in the middle of ow craziness...and believe you and me, she is certifiable.
Glad to hear things are well with you. H and I are living in Las Vegas now and loving it!
talk atcha soon! Tryin
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Hey y'all, it was great hearing from you all. It almost seems like old times. I lost most contact information from all of you and would like to update my stuff. If you all would e-mail me twiisty@yahoo.com I can send my private e-mail and then we can go from updating there. Has anyone heard from Catnip? I haven't heard from her in ages. I need to get help for my trust issues in my current relationship, and I need to find the appropriate forum since I don't really qualify here except to offer my experiences for when I have had to deal with OC/OW/etc. It seems like a lifetime ago. Ow still bugs me though, but I don't have the animosity I once did. I know time heals all wounds, but this one in the trust department is the hardest. To those who have remarried or dated after something like this...how did you trust? Was it hard? Heck...those who are still married and worked to keep their marriage...what did YOU do to rebuild trust? I'm interested to hear. Might make a new post out of this.
Divorced
COM:Three (7,6 and 3 years old)
COPM:Two(13, 12 years old)
D-day 05/01/01
Recovery 05/01-10/04
Divorce Finalized 04/2006
Oc is 7 and still NC on ex-h's part.
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Hi Twiisty!
I've just emailed you. Please check and make sure you've got it. I would love to get together sometime and have lunch and plan for our future law partnership,haha.
Warmest,
cd
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Hello CD!!!
E-mail is on your way, thanks so much for getting in touch!
We definately need to plan for our future law partnership, you'll need to open up a firm near my neck of the woods for sure!!! Ha ha ha ha!!!
Sincerely,
Twiisty
Divorced
COM:Three (7,6 and 3 years old)
COPM:Two(13, 12 years old)
D-day 05/01/01
Recovery 05/01-10/04
Divorce Finalized 04/2006
Oc is 7 and still NC on ex-h's part.
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