This has been a struggle.. We all know that. It hurts, but then again, we all own our own pain after a certain extent, right?
Just recently... and I am talking in terms of the past week to several weeks, my instinct has told me that something is not right.
Instinct for some works..lol
I have found evidence of the MOW here contacting H. To refresh your memory, we are NC. The OC is just over one year old and we carry the health insurance as per MOWH's request. DNA was done.
H whole demeanor has changed. He actually said to me, that MOWH never intended to be a father to this child or he wouldn't have insisted on DNA and the health insurance.
That's a first for that comment.. he used to always say that this was MOWH's child and that he (H) had no right to interfere.
This is a guilt trip coming from MOW, isn't it?
We all live in a small town, we all know the same people. Most everyone knows. I have pushed my H to do the legal deal and get CS done with visitation. He staunchly refuses saying that he would not interfere with her family.
However, when MOW gets bored, she has a right to interfere with mine?
I am looking for a MB way to handle this. I exposed C to MOWH, and again, he was very passsive but said he would get back to me after some investigation.
I told H what I did. He was not happy. He swears she only made one phone call to tell him that the child had an eye infection.
FYI, the child has been in OT for a year...an eye infection warrants contact?
Of course, then I am the ogre here because I have no "feeling" for the caring nature in which way MOW let H know about the child..
If you knew MOW, you'd know this was b..s..
For the record, I have never been opposed to C, though I am grateful for NC as my own COM have suffered enough.
I am tired of my COM paying the price in this small town for two selfish adults, and the positive changes taking place in their father this past year will all be forgotten when they find him sneaking with this woman again.
Help ?
Eibrab
Last edited by Eibrab; 06/29/06 07:46 AM.