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#1752331 09/29/06 06:52 AM
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I just busted bramblerose telling some one this....

in regards to an OP...and the WS.....be it he or she...

in regards to what part of the allur of a OP has with a WS

here is her brilliant gentle wisdom..

I'll tell ya what is so so special about her...

She doesn't require him to be a better man.



BS use this wisdom....
non confrontationally....

it is the truth...anyone who accepts the active treating like crap to another human being
condones it
accepts
encourages...

as long as it is not directed their way...
are in my opinion evilness in motion....

speak it to your WS...

in your words

with humility...softness and even kindness...

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I'll tell ya what is so so special about her...

She doesn't require him to be a better man.


Yep..the FOW in my case..meeting the ADMIRATION NEED..."I LOVE YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE"... <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" />


I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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Ark,

You always come up with cool things! A tip of the hat to ya!


"Never argue with idiots or WSs, They just drag you down to their level and beat you with experience"
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That is very very interesting.


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Reminds me of the line in "As Good As It Gets" when Jack Nicholson tells Helen Hunt,
"You make me want to be a better man."
I LOVE that line!
Good stuff bramble & ark!


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Excellent, Ark.
Another addition to my "cool quotes" list.
Along with "Do you want to be right or do you want to be (happily) married?" <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Hi ((((Fraggles))) !


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Reminds me of the line in "As Good As It Gets" when Jack Nicholson tells Helen Hunt,
"You make me want to be a better man."
I LOVE that line!
I love that line too. Awesome post Arkie and BR.


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