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I caught the little woman in an affair. I came here & got A LOT of help from the site AND the members. - SO I changed .and She said that she was going to, but that she was not the real blame. all the classic symtoms. staying gone , new friends, weight loss,Just like I was reading the Dr's list about her!
I discovered a list of letters that was saved on a disk for 5 years.the man was a child that she had sex with him he was 13 she 18 maybe 19!!! (sounds illeagle)
I had been injured & was flat on my back for over 2 months.
so she just took up with him again(dirty trick?)
she was verry careful to put things in the letters(on the disk) that if found could be mistaken as just a letter not sent, or adding letters every so often that would make it seem that the affair was only one sided!Really sneaky but she admitted to it!
So I really tried HARD all summer to mend things.LOOKED GOOD TOO.
well, I hurt my rotater cuffs & was realy in pain for 6 weeks , not laid up but in pain.I must admit that she was not #1 on my mind for a few weeks. I noticed that she was going back to the old routine, going to see her mother a lot, cousins, buisness trips, movies with a friend.I asked her what was up. She said to me--- Just like before you are not giving me every thing I want or need .
I FEEL REALLY BAD ABOUT THIS!YES the BAAAaaaad feeling again.
I can't catch her on the internet any more = wise to spy ware , wise to disks.
what should I do to corner her this time? I would just QUIT but 30 years is a lot of time to loose & how could I start over... NO with y'alls help I will straighten her out
Thank you
0403
Last edited by 0403; 11/04/06 12:13 PM.