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I caught the little woman in an affair. I came here & got A LOT of help from the site AND the members. - SO I changed .and She said that she was going to, but that she was not the real blame. all the classic symtoms. staying gone , new friends, weight loss,Just like I was reading the Dr's list about her!
I discovered a list of letters that was saved on a disk for 5 years.the man was a child that she had sex with him he was 13 she 18 maybe 19!!! (sounds illeagle)
I had been injured & was flat on my back for over 2 months.
so she just took up with him again(dirty trick?)
she was verry careful to put things in the letters(on the disk) that if found could be mistaken as just a letter not sent, or adding letters every so often that would make it seem that the affair was only one sided!Really sneaky but she admitted to it!
So I really tried HARD all summer to mend things.LOOKED GOOD TOO.
well, I hurt my rotater cuffs & was realy in pain for 6 weeks , not laid up but in pain.I must admit that she was not #1 on my mind for a few weeks. I noticed that she was going back to the old routine, going to see her mother a lot, cousins, buisness trips, movies with a friend.I asked her what was up. She said to me--- Just like before you are not giving me every thing I want or need .
I FEEL REALLY BAD ABOUT THIS!YES the BAAAaaaad feeling again.
I can't catch her on the internet any more = wise to spy ware , wise to disks.
what should I do to corner her this time? I would just QUIT but 30 years is a lot of time to loose & how could I start over... NO with y'alls help I will straighten her out
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Thanks marsh.
I used key logger , that got me going
Then I bought personal inspector That is a VERY good program!
BUT I think the puter.& phone . is out, looks to me as though she has evolved! I was wondering just how she is doing it?
maybe she is more sneaky than all us, but I think not!! hope not!
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Buy a GPS & stick it under her car

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GPS- might be a great tool . I have looked on these sites you left the links to & on EBAY. Ya know the mileage very seldome changes. I check the gas mileage just to see what gas mileage we get . might be they meet some where?
or ? just don't know. should be an answer on how to trip her up, she is sly!!
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when my H was in his A, they'd meet at the airport and then drive away in a rental car !!!

now THAT is sly

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when my H was in his A, they'd meet at the airport and then drive away in a rental car !!!

now THAT is sly
Yes it is . wonder if they thought it up on there own or read about it somewhere?
I think my wife is up to something that is just as sneaky. To hire a private eye has came to mind. but I just don't know if these guys are reliable . I have wached this DOG guy on tv. looks expensive & might be a rough bunch of people to deal with
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Yes it is . wonder if they thought it up on there own or read about it somewhere?

my husband told me that when he drove to meet OW for their first motel weekend together, she said to meet him at the airport

they met
she had rented a car so they would not be recognized
they left their cars at the airport

she was very experienced
9th affair (at least that's what she told my H at the end)

"DOG" is a celebrity PI
call someone local
I suggest you hire a female if possible
somone who looks like a granny

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they only used the rental car the first time

after that, they did not because it became too expensive

*gag*

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Ya know the mileage very seldome changes. I check the gas mileage just to see what gas mileage we get . might be they meet some where?

his car ? (much adultery is fornicating in a car !!! You'd be surprised)
public transportation ?
somewhere local ?

I'd seriously consider putting a GPS on her car anyway
at least you would know if she is habitually driving to somewhere she does NOT tell you about

and if she is
you could get a buddy to tail her her & to watch what happends

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thanks, I think I am just going to have it out & get it over with.
any body want a used wife?
looks good but seems to have HIGH mileage!!


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