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#1766735 11/07/06 02:55 PM
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I thought since I was saying hi in other places today, i would stop by here...

Life is really good everyone, we are almost 2 years post my affair, and a little over 1 year post Sprints. Life is really doing well...life does get back to normal when you focus on the needs and new communication.

It's been a long haul of change, learning to not to fight emotionally, react defensively and always remember the bigger picture, but bit by bit we have gotten the hang of it, and this better marriage is so rewarding...who'd of thought?

I hope everyone here hangs in there, has hope, make the changes THEY need to make on themselves...you can't control the other person, what they say, what they do...you can only change you...and life is full of reactions, sometimes the right changes, can create the right reaction in someone else...

Miss everyone, but glad to have moved on - glad I dont need marriage builders anymore for support, but have been able to firmly implement the tools in my marriage...it really saved us.

<img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> feel free to email me old friends at candice.louise@gmail.com

Hope you are ALL well

xo


Dorry (aka Deeplysorry)
me FWW - EA/PA fall of 2004
FWH EA/PA late spring 2005
Got our acts together July 2005 and started recovery.

The Recovery Guide for WW's (Wayward Wives)
Dorry's Story

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dorry #1766736 11/07/06 03:11 PM
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Another success story!!

Mr. G


"You don't need a weatherman to know which way the wind blows," Bob Dylan
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dorry... I never posted to you often, but read many of your posts when I was new. You were one of the main people to help me understand how my WW was feeling and to have some understanding and compassion for her.

You had a big role in giving me strength to fight for my marriage. Thank you. Glad to hear how well you are doing.

Shaden


BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.

Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.
FAITH REQUIRES ACTION!
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A big loss to MB, Dorry...

Great to see you. We still have all your posts.

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Thank you for the update, the inspiration and for sharing your story. We miss you.

LA

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Hi Dorry. Glad to hear things are getting better!

God bless.

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Hi Dorry!!!

Great to hear from you and hear about how well things are going. all the best.

{{{{DORRY}}}}

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Hi Dorry,

Glad to hear about your success and Sprints. Hope you drop by from time to time. People could use the help and the inspiration.

God Bless,

JL


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