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Valentines Day??
#1820685 02/03/07 11:57 PM
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Ok,
If your WW says that she does not love you yadayada, and is not wearing her wedding rings, is not hugging or kissing you. Not sleeping in the same bed as you but in the same house. Do you or don't you get her a Valentines gift? Should I not get anything and say that I did not think that we were romantic? Or should I get a card. Not really into this holiday this year...


Thanks

Married 12 years, BS 43(me), FWW 44 Kids 9 and 11 Recovering Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesian4
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betrayedinCAL #1820686 02/04/07 12:15 AM
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If you are still in Plan A then yes.

Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
D-Day August 2005
Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
Fully Recovered.
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bigkahuna #1820687 02/04/07 12:29 AM
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I agree with bigK. Get her a card; get her candy; get her a dozen roses! Just try not to go too "over-the-top" on the card.

I actually bought my W flowers to give her before I confronted her on Dday. She didn't even notice them, but she now uses the cheap vase I bought to put them in all of the time. Don't expect a miracle from the gift, but it can show her what you feel. Plan A is partly showing her that you love her in spite of what has happened.

Mark

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