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Hello, I thought I would post an update for all those that helped me through it all. I have to say that this was one of the hardest things that I have had to deal with and now we are heading in the right direction. First off I found a IC that put my balls back in my pants (Marsh said this over and over). Then I fired the Worthless MC, and started to do things that my IC was telling me. He was working the same direction that all the information on here was leading me but holding me more accountable. So now the WS is in my opinion a FWS. She is treating the family like a family instead of a place to keep her computer and sleep. She decided to start to do some things that I like also, instead of just being selfish and doing what she wanted only all the time. She treats me like she wants to be treated and in return we are improving. We never got to a plan B but I did stay with the Plan A a lot longer then people on here really wanted me to.
The road to recovery is hard, but with hard work and a willingness it can work out. Another success story for the Harleys principles
Ron <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
Married 12 years, BS 43(me), FWW 44
Kids 9 and 11
Recovering
Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry. Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.
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YIPPEE!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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That's good to hear, Ron. Things are going much better for me as well.
Jim BS - 32 (me) FWW - 33 Married 8/31/03 No kids (but 3 cats) D-Days - 8/25/06 (EA), 11/3/06 (PA) NC agreed to - 11/8/06 NC broken - 11/28/06, 12/16/06, 1/18/07, 1/26/07, 1/27/07 Status - In Recovery Jim's Story
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I really liked seeing the two of you togethor, made my heart swell with pride. You had alot more patience that I would have.
I hope you continue to do better and I really appreciated, that you have spent time and effort in treating me like a friend.
Thank you
And you didn't have to pay for dinner. But if your in San Antonio, its my turn!
FBH 34 me,FWW 34, DS 14, OC-D 12 (given up for adoption), DS-8, DD-5 D-Day#1 10-12-1998 D-Day#2 2-10-2008 Recovered!
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