Much has happened in the last few weeks....
Back in March my WW invited me out for coffee with the kids and I accepted, however it didn't really go well since not much was said between the two of us as I was waiting to see what she was bringing to the table. I felt duped and after that returned to Plan B until she tried to make contact in late June, just before my birthday. She asked if she could accompany the kids to celebrate my birthday.
At that point I restated my Plan B conditions to which I received a confusing response from her so I declined her self-inviation and went dark again. She had wrote me a note in a card that said she wanted to go away with the kids to see if we could "try again".
In the meantime I noticed my WW had humbled herself based on the voice messages she was leaving for the kids and in once case where I refused to speak with her after she called she broke down while on the phone with my son.
She was crashing...
All the while this is happening, my life was also progressing well. I had regained my self-respect and was meeting new an interesting people who enjoyed my company. I felt good about myself and had almost resingned myself to the notion that a divorce is inevitable.
Almost 1 year from the start of my Plan B, I was contemplating contacting my lawyer to begin the D process. Then she called and asked asked if I wanted to come over and something about this call seemed different.
I accepted and went over for dinner. She went all out and cooked a meal she knows I love. She was asking me questions and divulging alot of what was going on in her life without me even asking. She seemed to be making an effort to show me that OM is clearly out of the picture and has been for a very long time. She even introduced me to her neighbor as her "husband".
I left that night not knowing if I even wanted to try and recover my marriage any more. I still feel that way, but knowing about Harley's $LB concept I am willing to see if my feelings can change, as long as she continues to show actions that are consistent with recovery.
She has been calling me almost everyday and has an excitement in her voice that I haven't heard in years. The look in her eyes is also slowly coming back. The alien is gone and she reminds me of the woman who I orginally fell in love with so long ago.
It has only been over a week since this started so I am very cautions and just taking things very slow.
So that's my situation right now. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />
