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1. Are you the person responsible for Justuss becoming aware of my post which was then editted?

2. Do you think that you have said anything to me or about me since and including the Captain's thread that goes against the posting policy of this board?

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Letting this go would be the most graceful thing you could do FLT2H...You have the power to control you...

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Letting this go would be the most graceful thing you could do FLT2H


Graceful for who?

Mrs. W, FL is simply asking questions. All they need are simple, honest answers. Nothing more, nothing less.

I think FL does not want to make assumptions.

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NOW...She's asked the same type questions already...ad nauseum, in fact...seems like a lot of running to stand still to me...*shrug* Her choice of course...Even if she got answers to her questions, what would that accomplish for her? Outside validation? approval? acceptance? Feelings just are, they don't have to be "validated" (especially by virtual strangers)...She is entitled to her feelings whatever they may be...Just seems like a giant waste of time to me...to each his own though...

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MrsW, thank you for the advice, however, I am curious of her answers. She can choose not to answer.

My intention is to keep this short and not a debate. I will accept her answers with a simple "thank you".

for the record, in case anyone is wondering, i have already admitted that regarding my response to those that posted on Captain's thread, specifically "WOW. I am disgusted with this thread", was too emotional and disrespectful, I should not have said I was disgusted, I should of asked questions to understand others posts, not attacked their views.

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Mrs.W. then please do not waste your time reading it. YOU choose to look at it, even though it clearly is marked for Melody.

This has nothing to do about my feelings. I am curious to know the answers which if asked before, I don't believe were ever answered straight forward.

No matter what her answers, it will not change my views, i am not looking for any outside validation. it has nothing to do with me. I am wanting to learn about her

i am asking very straight forward way in hopes of recieving very straight forward, meaning yes or no answers.

she can choose to not answer as well.

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Good luck...

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oh good grief.... This needs to stop, FLTH. This is insane.


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No matter what her answers, it will not change my views,

You have already made your mind up...why would it matter what the answer is? What value would it hold for you to hear it or her to answer?

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then, unless you want to correct me, i will assume you do not want to answer the questions.

none the less, thank you for reading and letting me know your decision.

eveyone else who maybe reading.... PLEASE do not let this thread continue on. I have what I need. She was asked, she responded in the way she wanted to respond. that is all i was looking for. thanks and please direct your attention to other threads that can use your help. Thanks.

committed, my intention was to UNDERSTAND her.

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sorry, FLTH, but I won't play. My only response is that this is insane; thats the best answer you deserve.


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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We're here to BUILD marriages!

Isn't there someone here that could use your help instead of reading this senseless bickering?


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