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Hi 411,
I didn't mean to keep the suspense going. I'm not Alfred Hitchcock!
Anyway, he didn't call. I told DIL he probably sent an email instead. Returned home after the hayride. Yep.
His reply was: so you don't hate me and you don't want any of the stuff...why not just say, "he can have it?"
I didn't bother to dignify that with a response.
He hung around in gmail for a while, waiting for me to answer, I imagine. I messed around online a while and then went to bed.
I woke up at one point and checked and he was logged out of both gmail and yahoo.
This a.m. he's back in gmail again. I checked messages and then logged out.
So, in a way, you're right. But it's HIM waiting now!
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Good you've flipped on him. It's a power struggle to be sure.
I'm waiting on her because she's the one who wanted "to meet up with me"
Granted she's only 4 days out (assuming things haven't restarted) so I expect all sorts of garbage from her.
BxBF 32 years
WxGF 30 years
D-Day 9/24/07
Break-up/separation 9/30/07
Plan A 9/30/07-11/7/07
Plan B 11/8/07
A over 12/4/07
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Yeah, it's a lotta fun, ain't it? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/rolleyes.gif" alt="" /> Waiting for common sense to kick their butts back into reality! I know...common sense? What's that? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/grin.gif" alt="" />
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Common sense for a wayward, ha!
At least I'm reading a few books.
HNHN and After the Affair, plus I hate you don't leave me
BxBF 32 years
WxGF 30 years
D-Day 9/24/07
Break-up/separation 9/30/07
Plan A 9/30/07-11/7/07
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Common sense for a wayward, ha! Yep! LOLOLOL at that one! I have After the Affair. Strangely, I found it amongst Mr. Gray's radios when I was trying to clean in there one night. I don't know how he got ahold of it. I hid all of my books really well, or so I thought! My IC still has my SAA book. I don't have HNHN...I need to get that one soon.
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Yeah that is weird how did he get ahold of that book, I wonder. .... I've read parts in all three. All three are very informative. Granted most people don't need I hate you don't leave me, but in my case I need to be prepped I suppose. Cold wintery Sundays stink <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/frown.gif" alt="" /> I think everyone hates this time of year when they're down, because of the Holidays and the fact that this time is usually spent snuggling.
BxBF 32 years
WxGF 30 years
D-Day 9/24/07
Break-up/separation 9/30/07
Plan A 9/30/07-11/7/07
Plan B 11/8/07
A over 12/4/07
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*cough* Mind sending the blog url my way? It wouldn't be the first WS's online stuff I'd have had the 'pleasure' of reading.... even watched a friend from MB's xWH's OW have a meltdown...that was...interesting.
mojodiva99 @ yahoo . com
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Hi 411!
Yeah, I don't think too much about the snuggling thing. Of course, I don't think we've done much of that around the holidays...not since our first Christmas, anyway!
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Charlotte, I think its great that even though you are stil in Plan A that you are choosing noot to engage Mr. Grey online. He knows you are there just as much as you are aware of him. And you are right, he needs to make the moves, not you.
However, when you go to Plan B... do you have a way to keep him from seeing you online?
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Well,
Talked a while with Mr. Gray. He was hemming and hawing but I was the bulldozer...pushing the dirt out of the way to get to the real treasure.
He wants to talk, this much is clear.
But he's a chicken liver.
That's okay.
I'm not.
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Hi mojo!
I'm not sure if I can prevent it in gmail but I can in yahoo.
The "invisible" option isn't available in gmail like yahoo...at least not that I could find. And if it is...he ain't usin' it!
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And nary a peep about the radios this time!
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Hi mojo!
I'm not sure if I can prevent it in gmail but I can in yahoo.
The "invisible" option isn't available in gmail like yahoo...at least not that I could find. And if it is...he ain't usin' it! If you can't make yourself invisible to Mr. Grey on gmail, I honestly think you should not use it once you start the Plan B. Ws's should be left completely in the dark about everything you do, including when you are online. Makes them wonder!
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Charlotte,
Good luck. I think you have done a great job. I was following your lead, but you seem to be doing a much better job. Keep up the good work.
Ryan.
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Hi mojo!
Dang! But I like my new email name!
I guess I could see if it's available elsewhere!
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Thanks Ryan!
I told my DIL...I don't know where I got my b*lls! But they are working!!
For now!!!!
(crossing fingers here!)
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I'm in the same spot .... ball is in the waywards court. So we'll see what's going on soon enough.
BxBF 32 years
WxGF 30 years
D-Day 9/24/07
Break-up/separation 9/30/07
Plan A 9/30/07-11/7/07
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I hear that, 411!!!
I'm up right now.
I don't want to see down...but I know the roller coaster doesn't discriminate!!
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Two of my FWH's OWs (sisters-- he was having an EA with both[grrrr]) were into the same hobby your WH is... I've always fantasized about harrassing them through the airwaves.
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Hey Charlotte!
I'll be around all day so if you can't sleep, I'll be here on the night-shift!
Semper Fi,
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