South Carolina Common Law Marriage on its last leg I always thought that the determining factor was length of time.
It appears that all it takes is a judge to give it a 'yea verily' and it's a done deal.
They do use a list though...
A woman takes the surname of the man with whom she lives ( Must be doing this "informally" because you can't even change your name on anything unless you show that marriage certificate)
The couple refers to their marriage in conversations with other people, such as friends, family, and co-workers; (both parties or just one?)
The couple files joint tax returns for federal or state income tax purposes; (not gonna happen because the social security number will kick out if she tries to use his last name as hers...so maybe she just retains her last name...but that makes the first item on this list null)
The couple lists each other as spouses on insurance forms and retirement plans; (again...not gonna happen until you show "proof of marriage"...as in certificate.)
The couple has joint checking and savings accounts; and the couple holds property as joint tenants. (this might be the only thing that is easy to do...and the dumbest thing to do without benefit of marriage)
I guess it makes me wonder WHY anyone would place themselves in such a tenuous position.
I can't even imagine bringing children into a relationship like that either.
What is so awful about getting married that it is avoided?
When it goes down the pipes, a claim of common law "marriage" is quick to come to the front.
It isn't any big trouble to get "married"...the trouble starts when one person in the relationship decides to go their separate way.
People don't want to be locked in legally....they just want something legal to be done when it breaks up.
There is a reason that marriage takes place...a LEGALLY binding reason.
It isn't all about the relationship...a show of love...a public declaration...
it is LEGALLY BINDING.
Why avoid that?
Any other views?
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