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BA, are you still there?

I really would like to hear your story...the REAL one.

There is no reason to be shy here. It's an anonymous board, right?

Tell me how infidelity touched your childhood.

You were 13, just like my daughter was last year, I'm sure you remember.

Did you respond like her? Fierce in her refusal to accept her family being ripped apart?

Did you respond like my 17 yos? Trying to pick up the pieces of our home and do the best he could helping his little brothers?

Or maybe you were more like my 11 yos. He was quiet and wouldn't talk much about it, always said he was "OK".

Remember my 8 yos...the one that raged every night. I doubt you were like him.

I would guess you tried to be "good".

Then there was my littlest, who was just so sad, so very sad.

What was it like for you, BA?

How have you overcome the struggles you had to face because of what happened in your family?


I really do want to know...but only here...where I can feel safe.









Last edited by SunflowerSmile; 06/09/08 04:24 PM.

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BA (or whoever you are) and Sunflower,

can you guy's take this discussion elsewhere please?

It has nothing to do with the subject of my thread and the incredible level of support I and other struggling people are getting here.

Thanks.

TTH



BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on

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Mods - Can you get my "Recovery" thread removed from the Other Topics board?

I'm not sure how it got over here, but it's really confusing to try to follow it.

The real thread belongs only on the GQII board.

It seems like it is now split up among three different threads...

Thanks.


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on


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