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Just curious if any BH's would like to get together in one thread and discuss some of our issues with our WW's infidelity, and issues with our healing, recovery, divorce, etc....? BBF's welcome too.


Introvert is present


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I'm in.

- Sh0cked


Me: BH
Her: FWW
Kids:DSD 12, DS 7, DD, 7

EA/PA: September 2007 - November 2007
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I'll contribute...


BH(me): 40ish
FWW:(ILMH) 28yo
DS 3yo
Married 7yrs
Together 10 yrs

??? Spring '07 - Adultery Begins
8/25/07 - 1st D-day (week of our anniv.)
8/07 thru 5/08 - About a dozen D-days/Gaslighting/Flaunting/Fake Recoveries

She finally quit on...

1/1/08 - First real NC attempt(Maybe?)
3/1/08 - Told me OM is an A**hole.(Hope?)
5/3/08 - D-day (Admitted to PA once)
5/4/08 - Latest D-day(Finally confessed to multiple EA/PA in our home)
5/8/08 - Present
Struggling to hold on

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Present


BH - me - 29
WW - 28
Married 07/2001
D-Day #2 - 03/01/2008
03/22/2008 - NC Established
05/??/2008 - NC Broken (I think)
07/01/2008 - WW 'Unsure of what she wants to do'
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Well, things are actually looking up for me today but I am still and H who has been well and truly B'd so I'm in.

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BS ME 35, XWW 37, DS 7, DD 5, DS 5, D-day1 12-20-2007.Multiple Ddays

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I'll play...... maybe.....


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
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I am lurking but might chip in 2¢ here and there.
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Present and accounted for, sir!


D-Day 28 Feb 06
Plan D (Not by choice) - 24 March 06

DD6
DS4(Twin1)
DS4(Twin2)

She moved away with the kids April 08. I contested it and got a lot more time with my kids. She's unhappy that I want to stay involved in their lives and don't settle for being an "every other weekend" dad.

Never going to happen.

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I'll be around. cool

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Yo!

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i'm in


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Introvert, as the chairman, perhaps you should call the meeting to order... cool


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Kids:DSD 12, DS 7, DD, 7

EA/PA: September 2007 - November 2007
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Originally Posted by Sh0cked
Introvert, as the chairman, perhaps you should call the meeting to order... cool

He's too introverted, hack, cough, gasp smile

Er, I'm in.

We be called "The Hoot Owls."

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I too am lurking and will chime in possibly....

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can extroverts come to this meetin?? smile


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
can extroverts come to this meetin?? smile

Oh heck, now we have to call it the Hoot and Hooter Owls.

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I qualify (against my wishes). I am astounded at the amount of sexual sins in the church.

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Originally Posted by _Larry_
Originally Posted by MelodyLane
can extroverts come to this meetin?? smile

Oh heck, now we have to call it the Hoot and Hooter Owls.

Larry

I hafta be a hooter girl??? cry


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
I hafta be a hooter girl??? cry

Hey - who said anything about allowing chicks on this thread?


Me: 56 (FBS) Wife: 55 (FWW)
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Married 11/1982 3 Sons 27,25,23
Empty Nesters.
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