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It sure does and TARNATION!!!!

He beat me to the punch and paid this a.m.!!!! rant2

Ship to the work address...of COURSE!!! He might get in trouble otherwise!!!!

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He better leave me good feedback, dang it!! I'll be like this until I get it: skeptical

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Well, if he won't, I could.

"This vendor is always prompt and never dances around the truth. She knows how to get things done and is always on the move. I don't know how she does it. Perhaps, she is too busy to sleep."

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Originally Posted by cinderella
Well, if he won't, I could.

"This vendor is always prompt and never dances around the truth. She knows how to get things done and is always on the move. I don't know how she does it. Perhaps, she is too busy to sleep."

Why...thank yuh....thank yuh verra much, Mayum! cool

Yeah, I sent it with a return receipt. LOL!! Probably should have insured it, too. And I left him feedback. rotflmao

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Finished my diversity paper for history, Baby!!!

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO-HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I feel GOOD about it!!!!

YEEEEEEEEEEEE-HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It might even pass muster!!!!!

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

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The way you said "Yeehaw", it sounds like you just might be a cowgirl. stickout

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Originally Posted by cinderella
The way you said "Yeehaw", it sounds like you just might be a cowgirl. stickout

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Yeah, once in a while. Ah doan overdo it, though. Heck, Ah jes' started usin' mah acksayent agayun, rilly. I's tryin' ta phase it out fer years!!! So's Ah woodin' soun' too Texan!

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Oh yeah, the report.

Well, the reply was at Shiny's so we looked it over.

They're trying to push me around. Whatever.

He refuses to voluntarily pay any more support but will offer a percentage of his bonus...blah blah blah...which is GUARANTEED...according to them.

Which, I forgot to mention to Shiny but he can use that for OWH because Slag claimed it wasn't on the stand. All I know is that we've had one every year since he started there.

Anyway, whatever!!! Shiny said we could counter it again...sounded good so I said, "Well, you play poker...so let's call their bluff."

So that's what we are going to do.

Because he AIN'T...that's RIGHT!!!!!!! HE AIN'T PUSHIN' ME AROUND!!!! rant2 rant2 rant2

I told Shiny..."Okay, fine. If we go to court, I don't care. Do you really think he wants to pay all that money? Plus they have Slag's case to worry about, too. Hey, he'll be paying 3x more for his attorney-Palpitine than I will! 'Cause I complained that my bill was too low, remember?"

Shiny>>> rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao

Because it WAS too low, dang it!! He knows it.

Oh, and Gray had the NERVE to accuse me of spending $29,000 on my brother's attorney and PI. Like H*LL!!!! rant2 rant2 rant2 rant2 rant2 rant2

Any money that I put on that credit card, my grandfather paid it back to me and so did my Mom.

That really chaps my *ss, Man!!! rant2 rant2 rant2

HE is the one that kept buying and buying and buying any buying until the cards were high as h*ll and it was like juggling Waterford crystal trying to keep up with at all. And who do you think was doing that?

Me. Of course!!

D**n good thing I keep copies of everything forever!! Hey, bring it OAN, Cletus!! You wanna go to trial? FINE. We'll haul out the WHOLE kit-n-kaboodle, Jackson!!!

rant2 rant2 rant2 rant2 rant2

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Charlotte,

I'm not sure why you are out of Plan B. I missed it somewhere along the line.

Also, confused on whether or not you want to recover your M.

Somedays I get the impression that you do, others not so much. Heck, you must be like the rest of us - on again, off again. UGH


BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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Originally Posted by ChaiLover
Charlotte,

I'm not sure why you are out of Plan B. I missed it somewhere along the line.

Also, confused on whether or not you want to recover your M.

Somedays I get the impression that you do, others not so much. Heck, you must be like the rest of us - on again, off again. UGH

Que sera sera...

That about sums it up.

I had to break B because of court orders. Dang. Can't count that against me!! wink

So I am in Plan (W)hatever, because I don't know what the procedure is for this.

He'll never take responsibility for his actions. He can blame it on his "neurological damage" now. And who knows? Maybe that DID have something to do with it.

I wanted him to get a CAT scan back when. Not long before I exposed to OWH for the 2nd and final time, he mentioned that he wanted to get one because something was wrong with him.

So I'm just going to concentrate on school and surviving.

And if we go to trial, so be it. (I guess he doesn't realize that we would go to mediation first.)

I don't care, I don't give a crap. He is not going to bully me into accepting less than I need.

All I know is, if it comes to that, he'll be sorry. Shiny will take him apart. He thought it was bad at the hearing in May? And that Slag had it bad in July? He ain't seen NUTHIN' yet, Baby!! Shiny will rearrange his molecules!! Permanently!!

Bombs away!!!

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Gol-ll-eee!

I freaking LOVE you, Char!


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Are you ok w/ this much contact with him?

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Originally Posted by cinderella
Are you ok w/ this much contact with him?

Well, I would feel better if my new Dobie roommates were already living with me. (heh heh heh) But he seems to have more of a problem being around me than the other way around. Especially since he has to get so doped up first. puke

Since that fax yesterday I'm almost tempted to call him or email him to forget about Saturday but I really want him to take a load of his stuff so I'll have more room.

Just because he made that comment about the money. And you know what? I don't know where he's getting those figures. That was probably about the right amount that my Mom and grandpa spent. Actually more, I'm sure.

The total we spent was paid back by my grandpa before he passed away and my Mom when some land sold.

I had to borrow money from HER when he kept draining the bank account for his eBay addiction.

But that's okay. That's alllllllll right. He is wrong, period. I shouldn't have gotten my blood pressure up over it. Well, HE doesn't know that it did and that's the way it stays. I'm not saying anything about the comment to him.

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GREAT NEWS!!!!!

The adoption was approved!!!!

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hurray hurray hurray hurray hurray hurray

Now the only thing left is to get them here. So I either have to drive to Tulsa, OK, or see if they'll meet me halfway, or hope that it's not too expensive to fly them here!!!!

WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Excitement!!!!

Yeah, Tulsa is about 8 hours away. I will probably be driving myself. I would ask Shiny's PL-T, but she was attacked by Dobermans and treed atop a big aquarium while babysitting before, so she's not too thrilled about Dobies!

Ahhhhhhh......but LOVE WILL find a way!!!!!!

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Yay!!!


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So, are you gonna name them Tango and Mambo....Rhumba....ChaCha...Watusi...Moonwalk....

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Judging by the weather, maybe it'd be a good idea to get outta Dodge for awhile and make the trip to Tulsa?

Just stay safe.

Battoning down the hatches,
Kimmy


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Originally Posted by Dealan-de
Judging by the weather, maybe it'd be a good idea to get outta Dodge for awhile and make the trip to Tulsa?

Just stay safe.

Battoning down the hatches,
Kimmy

Hi Kimmy!!!

Yeah, that's true! Hmmmmmm......... think

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Charlotte

P.S.) Oh, and my apologies!! I missed answering your last post!! blush

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Originally Posted by cinderella
So, are you gonna name them Tango and Mambo....Rhumba....ChaCha...Watusi...Moonwalk....

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Well, I thought about Smith & Wesson!! rotflmao

Wesson would be an unusual name for a girl but still passable!

I also thought about Shiny & a portion of Shiny's last name, which is a type of flower. rotflmao

That would definitely work for both!!

rotflmao

That would be SO hilarious!!!!

I could just see Gray....coming over here and my Dobies are named after Shiny!!!!

rotflmao

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OMG that would be FUNNNNNNNNNYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But I don't know yet. I'm still thinking about it. I don't think I want to keep their names, currently they are Chance & Shy-shy. And they may not want to keep their names, either.

I guess I'll get to know them first and then we'll take it from there.


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Originally Posted by Dobie
Yay!!!

Heck yeah!!!!!

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P.S.) Oh, and my apologies!! I missed answering your last post!!

De nada.

You're a busy lady.

We had a dobie when I was a young'un named Contessa...and she was very noble.


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