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Since my h seems to be justifying why we need to get a divorce, our mode of getting together, not the fact that he and yet another married woman care very much about each other, I feel the only answer is to find a way to forget what a wonderful marriage we had. That means forgetting all the feelings and intimacy that made me fall so deeply in love with him. Any suggestions as to how I can do this? Neither he nor I can put up w/ my roller coaster of rage and sorrow much longer. My emotions have become very unpredictable. I am not talking about depression any more, but sheer terrifying, tearful rage at my loss. How does one fall out of love?
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I sure can't tell you how to fall out of love, but I wanted you to know I care and that I'm sorry.<P>Remember, don't sign anything until you're sure. Rage and sorrow are NORMAL. Give this some time.<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Marriage: the most important contract you'll ever enter into, and the most sacred.<P><BR>
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