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From CA but live in FL.


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Hi Amazin, I am also a transplant from the east coast (yankee) and in Texas. My H turned into a WAS after living here 2.5 years. good thread..old but good


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
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alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Shout out from Ventura County California!!!


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Me-39 H-38/Married 19years/DD18 & DS10
Dday EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08
Moved in w/Sea Hag 08/01/08
Read SAA Sept 08 Plan A 10/03/08 thru 11/15/08
Plan B 11/15/08-currently
01/18/09 Plan B crack w/phone call restating PBL
01/31/09 Planned brief contact
02/15/09 Delivery of Planned 2nd PBL
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What the heck are all these foreigners doing on here?!!! Is this a foreign devil convention?? You people need to quit spying on Americans! foreigners! :RollieEyes:

And BigK, you quit lying, you foreign devil, I happen to know you are from AUSTRALIA, the home of Crocodile Dundee and OUTBACK restaurants! South Wales, my hind end! :RollieEyes:


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Are there no God fearing SOUTHERN AMERICANS in this place or am I surrounded by yankees and foreigners?? cry


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Tennessee here


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EA for a week went PA and WW immediately left home leaving everything behind.
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Originally Posted by rustyshackelford
Tennessee here

FINALLY!! hug


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
And BigK, you quit lying, you foreign devil, I happen to know you are from AUSTRALIA, the home of Crocodile Dundee and OUTBACK restaurants! South Wales, my hind end! :RollieEyes:

Look you silly YANKEE, NEW South Wales is IN AUSTRALIA.

(and don't bother denying you are a yankee - you were born in the NORTH!!)


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I am a yankee who speaks the queen image. Is y'all a real word?


Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09

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Originally Posted by hope3343
I am a yankee who speaks the queen image. Is y'all a real word?

I did not hear that! sigh


shaddup, BigK!


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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Michigan here. Brrrrrr....


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Born and raised in OKLAHOMA. Lived two years in Australia, in New South Wales, consequently. Yes, it is a territory of Australia--where Sydney is. Spent a couple of years in Utah, then a couple of years in Baton Rouge, LA. I love the south, BTW. Awesome place. Now I reside in Kansas City, MO. I'll probably be here for quite some time.


I am a 32 yr old betrayed husband.
My wayward wife is 31.
Married 3.5 years.
Found out about affair when it started around 10/1/08.
Affair started as emotional via internet, then went physical.
Wife moved out on 12/27/08.
I filed for legal separation to get visitation with my son--wife countered with big D but now says she is in no hurry to finalize the D??
Currently in Plan A.
3 yr-old son.
7 yr-old step son.
11 yr-old step daughter.
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Bellevue is. Connecticut to be exact.

Now a Californian.

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Upstate NY here....


Me - BS (used to be known on this board as "NoTrust"

WH - 1st EA/PA, 1999-2000
2nd EA (Phone/Texting), 3 weeks (9/19/08-10/08/08)

DDay - 10/29/08

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Originally Posted by erichh
Born and raised in OKLAHOMA. Lived two years in Australia, in New South Wales, consequently. Yes, it is a territory of Australia--where Sydney is. Spent a couple of years in Utah, then a couple of years in Baton Rouge, LA. I love the south, BTW. Awesome place. Now I reside in Kansas City, MO. I'll probably be here for quite some time.

It's NOT A TERRITORY - It's a STATE.


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Originally Posted by bigkahuna
It's NOT A TERRITORY - It's a STATE.

:RollieEyes: :RollieEyes:


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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CALIFORNIA here...the state that as of lately can't figure out what climate it should be in...so one day I am fanning myself the next day it's double rain proof parkas...go figure.

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It's NOT A TERRITORY - It's a STATE.

and just where, pray tell, did you foreigners get that idear?? skeptical


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Shaddup Mel :twobyfour: naughty


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
foreigners get that idear??

What is that? A whole other language you just invented?


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