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Sad part, prior to this she was the most loving, caring person I have ever known.
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How many times have we said or heard this?
Being a logic-based person, it seems to me that there should be a cut-off point, a deviation from the path so to speak, where you can trace back what happened in an affair, where the 'real' person turned into the alien.
Would that we could invent a BS detector, like you could hang it on the living room wall, and whenever someone with...impure thoughts walks by, it goes BEEP! BEEP! BEEP!
The emergency squad is called out, the mediators, and you have to sit down right then and there and hash it all out before the WS progresses down that path into waynerd territory.
Once they get there, you have so little control.
*sigh* This is all so depressing. But it seems like if we could find a way for couples to stay in that 'honesty' area, where you're still willing to tell each other the truth, well...
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Cat,
I have had a day today.......
I just read your post and I swear I am laughing my butt off. All I can picture is Wil Smith dressed in his suit and "ray gun" coming to the rescue.
Maybe we all could hire the Men In Black squad.
On a serious note, you would be a very wealthy person bringing your invention to market. And that folks, is real sad.
Me 48 XWAW 42 M 18Y
D day 9/14/08
Plan A&B for months
One false R
DS12 (my life)
DD23
D Final 5-14-09
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I am not kidding. I told my xWW the same thing. As soon as someone touched her, all the alarm bells located at all the strategic locations will go off !
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Oops! I knew I forgot something! The post I started with should be attributed to kickme, lol. (or sadly enough) But I suppose it could just as well be quoted from dozens of other people here.
Anyway, yeah! Men in Black!
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I must have had blinders on and earplugs in place... Looking back now, all kinds of warning sirens were going off and I didn't hear or see a thing... I can see many incidents so clearly NOW... My husband even tried to tell me stuff and I wasn't listening... YUCK... 
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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sound in my household beginning june 08..
beep beep beep beep [color:#CC0000]beep beep
too bad it was on silence -- maybe I would have noticed and took action [/color] 
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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Ooh, I know. We could print out one of those little cards like they do for heart attacks, with the tips to remind yourself what to keep an eye out for.
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Ooh, I know. We could print out one of those little cards like they do for heart attacks, with the tips to remind yourself what to keep an eye out for. Needing 'space', new cellphones, passwords, long IM's, shutting down computer pages, long drives, lots of overtime, becoming 'mean', odd comments like "you'd be better off without me". That sort of thing??? 
Recovered marriage, recovering self, life gets better everyday 
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There's a CHANGE in the EYES...even in the STEP...the slow conversion into an ALIEN BEING...at this point, maybe just brief phone conversations and/or bringing a snack by her office...YUCK...
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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STRANGE SMELLS of ALCOHOL and CIGARETTES..that I thought were in my imagination... 
I made it happen..a joyful life..filled with peace, contentment, happiness and fabulocity.
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They can wear the detector around their neck... I've fallen and I can't get up -- with the OP 
Me 55, XWH 53, M 22 years
D17, D30
alien replaces my husband "I'm not happy" -7/08
Discover OW-8/08 (his direct report and I work there also)
H moves out 10/1/08, confront Ow 10/28/08
Plan B 1/09
D final 12/09
Quote: "First thing you do is pray; when there is nothing else to do, continue to pray."
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