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#2273767 11/13/09 04:18 PM
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I was at the courthouse today digging up dirt on POSOM (need to prove he lives with exWW to get out of alimony). I was going through his case on his crimminal tresspassing charges and noticed his court intake form was filled out by my exWW on his behalf.

Of course it listed our home as his address. However, my exWW put down that she was the closest relative to him. She also put down that her relationship to him was 2nd cousin. This was about two months after I found them in bed together. My question is, how can someone be so far in the addiction that they have no problem listing someone as a relative even though they know they are having SF with them? This just blew my mind and it clicked why exWW acts the way she does. I think she knows what she is doing / has done is wrong on so many levels so she makes stuff up to assauge her fear / guilt and ends up falling even further down the dark hole. It also explains why exMIL going through a lot counseling now. MIL's emotions must be just like a parent who is helpless whatching their child got through the horrors of severe drug addiction.



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You got it. In layman's terms, your wife is nuts. So is my ex. IMHO.

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She hasn't tried to have you killed yet.

Ba wary of this one.

Absolutely treat her as if she is plotting to have you iced.


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liars lie ... especially to themselves

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You have the photo of them in bed, right? That, combined with the intake form, seems like enough proof to show that they're living together... I hope, anyway.

She is nuts. I agree--she has to make up crap to justify her behavior to herself.


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MIL's emotions must be just like a parent who is helpless watching their child go through the horrors of severe drug addiction.


The extremes Waywards go to and don't care who they trample on... faint


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