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I checked WXH and OW's FB today - neither one of them have privacy settings on. OW's status is, "family need to stick together no matter what!!"

First of all.... rotflmao rotflmao rotflmao

On the off chance that you don't get it - this is the woman who had at least 2 A's, left her BH, ripping apart her family and taking her little girl away from her father. She did this to be with my WXH, who ripped apart his own family to be with her. Who the heck is she to preach about families sticking together???

So what do you think? Is she gaslighting someone? Who? Is it just typical wayspeak? Is her daughter (8 going on 15) rebelling to the point she is outright telling her she doesn't want to live with her and her manwh**e? Is her sister, the one court appointed to be the IM between her and OWH after she ran him over with the truck finally getting sick of her crap?

Ok it could be nothing at all but gee I can think of a lot of interesting scenarios!

Anyone care to go to town with this?

Disclaimer: the reason I was checking their FB's was because a deadline for my small claims court recently passed and I was checking if either one of them posted anything. Last time they did (idiots) and I heard about it through the grapevine. This time the grapevine was silent so I thought I'd just check myself.

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Could be a not-so-subtle plea to your WXH to stop being her WH!!!

Hopefully, she is reaping what she has sown...


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family need to stick together no matter what!!

I'm no expert but I think it could be one of a few things:

A)Trouble in River City (kids are hanging out at the local "pool hall" or anywhere that they don't have to be part of the whole "happy affair facade of a family" group).

B) Kids are not "on board" with the whole "happy affair family" idea and acting out or voicing their opinions (as opposed to just not being there...)

C) Sis is being "unreasonable" (according to the wayward entitled viewpoint)

D) All of the above


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Remarried my FXH 25 years to the day of our first M. God is so good-and sometimes so unexpected!

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Oh, come on. Give her the benefit of the doubt. She's CHANGED. She's realized how important family is. And now monkey's are flying out of her butt.....

Seriously.... She's FAKING the family thing. Just WANTS what she can't have because she's a selfish, homewreaking ho.

And if her friends see what she REALLY wants to say on her page, they wouldn't want to be her friend. But everyone already knows. So she's only fooling herself.

I hate OP. Hate, hate, hate. Especially when they act like they didn't do anything wrong!!!

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Originally Posted by Holyheart
I hate OP. Hate, hate, hate. Especially when they act like they didn't do anything wrong!!!

Amen.


BS - me 56
XWH - 57

12/25/06 - Dday - WH promised NC. Plan A in effect. Thought we were in recovery.

6-3-07 - Dday#2 Found out NC never took place and A never ended. Found MB NC promised again, but WH would not write NC letter.

9/07 - Dday #3. Still lying and sneaking around. Plan B implemented
WH wants nothing to do with me

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I'm tempted to give OWH a call if for no other reason than to let him have a look at it himself. But perhaps there has been some issues with the sister - this is my guess anyway. Last I heard from OWH was that OW was taking him back to court trying to reduce his visitation and increase his CS by using the assault charges as an example of how he's persecuting her. dramaqueen OWH told me at the time that sis was starting to get sick of her role as IM. This was about a month or 2 ago.


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