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26years has a thread called "am I stupid" a couple of threads down...does anyone know anything about NC letters...I dont have experience with that. She needs some help writing one. THANK YOU.


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DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

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I got a lot of help from this topic:

Plan B Letter Building


D - Day: 11/7/2009
Ended it with OM: 11/7/2009
Broke NC: 11/9/2009
D - Day 2: ~ 12/10/2009
Started Plan A: 1/8/2010
Found MB: 1/13/2010
Ended it with OM: 1/22/2010 ???
Filed for Divorce: 4/9/2010
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Thank you Tresmal....but I was looking for something more for the OP telling them not to contact WS. Somthing like that...


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile
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Do you have a copy of "Surviving an Affair?" There's an example on page 58:
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OP, I want you to know that out of respect and love for my BS and children, I have come to realize that I must never see or talk with you again. My relationship with you was a cruel indulgence that BS did not deserve. While I cannot completely repay BS for the pain I have caused him(her) I will do my best to become the husband(wife) he(she) has been missing. I care a great deal for my family and I would not want to do anything to risk their happiness. I will not make any further contact with you and I do not want you to make any contact with me. Please respect my desire to end our relationship.

Sincerely,

WS


Preach the Gospel every day. When necessary, use words.
St. Francis of Assissi
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Thanks Fred... smile


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile

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