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And the title of it is so funny, karm. Chidiots.


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DDay aug 2007
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still seeing OW
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married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

Okay I fixed the ages, it was looking screwy. smile
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I wanted something memorable. blush Thanks.

(-eyetwitch- This was the 42nd post...this number really IS following me! rotflmao )


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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"Me and you have nothing in common"....Ummm, yeah..WE HAVE A CHILD TOGETHER!!!! And the reason you might feel we have nothing in common is because YOU HAVE BEEN SPENDING ALL YOUR FREE TIME WITH OW, instead of your WIFE!!


Okay I made the post 43rd...Ill try to stop buggin' ya now.


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WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

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I have another version of #6- "The other woman is so much easier to talk to than you are"

Translation: I could spend my time talking to you, my wife, but that means I can't talk to OW, who has SO much more in common than us... although we have a ton in common... oh wait.

Rewrite this however you see fit. You get the point. Mine has nothing to do with being nasty, though that is definitely one possibility.

Also, I can't lay claim to #8, unless that's a major rewrite of one of mine...


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I thought the one i got that from was you, guess not. Sorry, I'll fix it.


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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It's okay, still. stickout


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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nope, I got no silver lining here... hence why I'm sitting on the floor of my little apartment... smirk


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you're awesome for doing this BTW... I can't wait to see more when I get up tomorrow.... smile


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I hope I pretty well with that one, ABR?


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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Me, awesome? blush


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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Originally Posted by karmasrose
I hope I pretty well with that one, ABR?

huh?


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Number six. I was wondering if I did it well enough? And your "Six, part two" is up. smile


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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You all can probably tell, by the way, that I'm editing these for content. Is that okay?


One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

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sick Okay I cant stop bugging you...sorry...

"In my mind the marriage was already over"...Okay, thanks for informing me about that...

"Marriage is a sham"....Then why did you get married "Well I didnt know it then."

"I didnt abandon you, I am right here if you need me, as a friend."...a friend that lied, cheated, and abandoned me!!!I am your wife.

"I wish we could be friends."...Yeah, cuz then he wouldnt have to feel guilty about what he did.


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

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Originally Posted by karmasrose
Me, awesome? blush


Uhhhh, yeah!!! kiss


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

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Here's another "great" one:

"i can still see us taking family vacations together. I wouldn't feel right taking the kids to Disneyland with anyone but u.".

But.... you feel right sleeping with someone else instead of your wife? Like heck we'd be taking family vacays together while you're living with OW!!!!

PS. I got the time shifting "I haven't loved you in (x) number of years" too. Currently it's that he regrets ever dating me at all. Started out just since november. They really know how to justify!

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Me: BW, 27
Him: WH, 29
DD 4
DS 1
Married 07/25/09
A began end of 08/2009 (possibly sooner)
D-Day: 3/31/10
2nd D-Day: 4/9/2010
3rd D-Day: 4/21/10

Plan B (shortlived as it was): 18/05/10
WH decides to work on marriage: 20/05/10
False Recovery, Back to Plan B: 13/08/10

Filed for D Feb 2011, D April 2012

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Originally Posted by NewPetals
Here's another "great" one:

"i can still see us taking family vacations together. I wouldn't feel right taking the kids to Disneyland with anyone but u.".

But.... you feel right sleeping with someone else instead of your wife? Like heck we'd be taking family vacays together while you're living with OW!!!!

PS. I got the time shifting "I haven't loved you in (x) number of years" too. Currently it's that he regrets ever dating me at all. Started out just since november. They really know how to justify!


Yes, waywards love to have their cake and eat it too...Lets pretend we are a family, but I can still have OW on the side....My WH wanted everything to stay the same as before I found out about A....family gatherings, family vacations..Stupid, selfish waywards rant2


BW me-41
WH -39
DS - 9
married 12 Yrs together(?) 18 yrs when A discovered
DDay aug 2007
found MB dec 2007
Moved out april 2008
still seeing OW
Plan B

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He told me, "You've done nothing but criticize and tear me down for years now."

Me: "What? What do you mean? Give me an example. Tell me about one time I've criticized and torn you down."

Him: Well ... uh .... uh ..... I can't thnink of anything right now but it's true and you just have to accept it. Why can't you accept that you haven't liked me for years?


BW (me) - 57
XWH-54
2DSs- 16 and 17
Married 16 years
D-Day - 8/21/09
XWH moved out 10-9-09
Divorce Finalized 11-19-10
XWH moved 4 states away (on 11/22/10) to live with OW.
XWH married OW 1-15-11
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I have posetd this one before.

I am laughing, but it still hurts.

Re; lie detector about EA/possible PA- (after reading about OH and POJA);
"I am telling you a TRUTH...I will not take the lie detector test."

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Me; W 46
Him; H 46

2 girls
DD19
DD16
Dated/Married total 28 years.
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