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I don't always agree with "Amy" but this one is pretty close to the mark if not spot on. Affairs are so highschool
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I don't agree with her advice, at all.
Consequences of the "friend's" actions is that she is now looked down upon, and she should KNOW that people think this way of her.
I would have advised this person to tell her friend, and then stop being her friend if she weren't repentant. Also, to tell the MM's BW, if she hadn't already been told.
BW(Me)aka Scotty:37 DSx2: 10,12 DDAY2(PA)Nov27/09 Plan B Dec18/09 Personal R in works Scotty's THING  Newly Betrayed click herePraying for walls and doors. Thanx MM “Surviving is important. Thriving is elegant.” ? Maya Angelou PROGRESS NOT PERFECTION THANK YOU
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You're kidding, right?
To paraphrase, "Even if your friend has played 'Little Miss Round Heels' to a married man, one should not presume to upbrade her for the slut she is!"
A whole lot of "relativistic humanity" Kool Aid is evidently being drunk!
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My agreement extends only to the title, that affairs are so high school or childish, selfish behavior.
I agree, all the friends in the circle should know who they are dealing with so they can protect their own marriages. Not just from her, but if they know who he is, they need to protect their marriages from him as well, not to mention letting his BW know.
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Y'all are so judgmental and unforgivin! 
"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt Exposure 101
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And bitter.
Wait a minute - maybe that was better, not bitter.
BW - 70
WH - 65
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
H broke contact 11/1/09
Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.
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