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First off, I am severely technologically challenged and my husband is just the opposite.

I've noticed a few things lately that are bothering me, and I want to see what he's doing on his phone. Looks like he has textplus silver edition, so that means he can text without it coming through our phone carrier, doesn't it? What type of device would get at this?

Also, I think he has an app for hidden photos/videos. I think the app is hidden as well. Found that it had been purchased by looking at our itunes acct.

I need something that will find these things, but also is VERY EASY to use. Or I'll need step by step instructions that I can practice over and over so I'm very good at it. I can only get his phone for short bits of time. Thanks for any guidance. This makes me very nervous.

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Originally Posted by Wonderingif
First off, I am severely technologically challenged and my husband is just the opposite.

I've noticed a few things lately that are bothering me, and I want to see what he's doing on his phone. Looks like he has textplus silver edition, so that means he can text without it coming through our phone carrier, doesn't it? What type of device would get at this?

Also, I think he has an app for hidden photos/videos. I think the app is hidden as well. Found that it had been purchased by looking at our itunes acct.

I need something that will find these things, but also is VERY EASY to use. Or I'll need step by step instructions that I can practice over and over so I'm very good at it. I can only get his phone for short bits of time. Thanks for any guidance. This makes me very nervous.
Wonderingif, if I were you I would start a new thread on the SAA forum.

Surviving an Affair

A lot more traffic there, and some tremendous help awaits there. Tell your whole story. Read a few threads to get an idea on how to format that initial post. Provide as much pertinent info as you can, but eliminate the fluff. The better informed the members are of your situation, the better they can help.

As far as tech help, iphones are tough. You can only download Apple apps, unless you jailbreak the phone. But if your H is as tech savvy as you say, then he WILL notice immediately. Sorry. There is a keylogger in the works for iphones, but it's not there yet. So, not much help to you at the moment.





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I just texted the makers of the iPhone spy stick to ask if it recovers this type of information. I'll update when I find out.

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Wondering,
If your husband has application which hide text messages and photos then he is probably having an affair.

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Originally Posted by TigerWes
Originally Posted by Wonderingif
First off, I am severely technologically challenged and my husband is just the opposite.

I've noticed a few things lately that are bothering me, and I want to see what he's doing on his phone. Looks like he has textplus silver edition, so that means he can text without it coming through our phone carrier, doesn't it? What type of device would get at this?

Also, I think he has an app for hidden photos/videos. I think the app is hidden as well. Found that it had been purchased by looking at our itunes acct.

I need something that will find these things, but also is VERY EASY to use. Or I'll need step by step instructions that I can practice over and over so I'm very good at it. I can only get his phone for short bits of time. Thanks for any guidance. This makes me very nervous.
Wonderingif, if I were you I would start a new thread on the SAA forum.

Surviving an Affair

A lot more traffic there, and some tremendous help awaits there. Tell your whole story. Read a few threads to get an idea on how to format that initial post. Provide as much pertinent info as you can, but eliminate the fluff. The better informed the members are of your situation, the better they can help.

As far as tech help, iphones are tough. You can only download Apple apps, unless you jailbreak the phone. But if your H is as tech savvy as you say, then he WILL notice immediately. Sorry. There is a keylogger in the works for iphones, but it's not there yet. So, not much help to you at the moment.

She has a thread there already. This is an ongoing issue with her husband texting people from craigslist and swinger clubs.
her thread link: http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/u...flat&Number=2602892&#Post2602892

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Yeah, I'm pretty sure something is going on. I will snoop and I'll be on SAA for help if I find something. Thanks. Prayers are appreciated.

Edited to add: a few weeks ago he said he knew I'd been checking his phone and he didn't like it. That got me headed in this direction.

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Brickhouse Security emailed me back and said the spy stick won't find text plus texts, those stay within the app. It also won't find hidden apps. It may find hidden
pics but not videos.

I'll keep thinking about what to do.

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How does the spy stick work exactly? I've already done a backup, so I need to do anything else? Or do I just plug the USB stick into my laptop without being connected to the iphone?


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