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#26188 11/02/99 11:57 AM
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So what's going on? See the counselor yet?<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A>

#26189 11/02/99 05:48 PM
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Yeah, what he said! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

#26190 11/03/99 11:23 AM
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Yeah!

#26191 11/05/99 11:28 AM
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Helloooooooo! Is anyone home today?

#26192 11/06/99 01:25 AM
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***MAYA HAS LEFT THE BUILDING***<P>(Maya, getcher bu++ out here!)

#26193 11/07/99 01:17 AM
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Hopin' Maya sees this thread soon! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>------------------<BR>/// Lone Star * ///<P><BR>

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Hi Maya,<BR> I saw you post to someone and wanted to know that you are wanted!!!........Lu

#26195 11/08/99 10:23 AM
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Yeah, me too! Posted to you on my thread Maya ...

#26196 11/08/99 07:06 PM
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***UPDATE***<P>There have been two recent "Maya sightings"... apparently she has re-entered the building... but she is darting around and keeping herself mostly hidden... apparently she knows she's a Wanted Woman... she seeems distressed... we must approach her very gently and carefully so as not to frighten her off...<P>*Yoo-hooooo....Maya? Maya, are you here? You can come out now... please, Maya?*<P>(Anybody hear anything?? Is that rustling?! *DAYAM*!! I think we just missed her again!)<P>*C'mon out, Maya, we miss you*... [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

#26197 11/08/99 07:09 PM
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<BR>I'm getting flashbacks to Wild Kingdom!<BR><P>------------------<BR>/// Lone Star * ///<P><BR>

#26198 11/09/99 12:04 PM
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Maya, Are you okay or should we let this thread die?<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html</A>

#26199 11/09/99 12:34 PM
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Hi, Maya,<P>I'm so sorry you're not doing well right now. Also, I apologize if my levity was inappropriate & hurtful (hope not, that wasn't my intent!)<P>Good luck to you wherever your journey leads you... at least *please* promise us you'll pop in from time to time & let us know how you're doing. We'll miss your sense of humor around here!<P>Suse

#26200 11/10/99 01:03 AM
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Just kinda curious what happend to Maya's & whodat's posts on this thread?

#26201 11/10/99 01:06 AM
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Chris:<P>I deleted mine; I don't want to cause Maya any more anxiety.<P>------------------<BR>Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die

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And I deleted mine so as not to embarrass Whodat in any association with me.

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Maya,<P>I live where you live... if you need anything, and I can help, I'd be happy to... let me know how to reach you... I don't want to publish my phone number or email here.<P>Take Care,<P>yy

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Oh, good grief, Maya...<P>If I didn’t care, I wouldn’t have reacted with such frustration, OK??? I’ll <B>never</B> be embarrassed to be associated with you; quite the contrary. You have such drive and fire, and it saddens me to see your pain, because I <B>know</B> you can have a great marriage! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Same path, remember? [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>------------------<BR>Where the heart is willing, it will find a thousand ways; but where it is unwilling, it will find a thousand excuses.<BR>

#26205 11/10/99 01:30 AM
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Somehow you don't remember your words, Whodat .... they stung .....<P>And sure they were true ... you nailed me perfectly. Yes, my husband deserves far better ... a fact I'm so well aware of. And yes, you're right ... divorce is the only option. But sadly, my H won't let me go. (yes, I asked again last weekend)<P>Therefore I AM STUCK. Perhaps one day you'll be reading about me in the papers.<P>I don't want to re-build my marriage. I don't want to even ASSOCIATE with any men. I hate men in general. <BR>

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yy:<P>You can e-mail me at maya_bryan@hotmail.com<P>Are you a man?

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Maya, you should know by now that tact is not my strong suit. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>But after months of talking to you, and still more time trying to shake you, sometimes stinging is all that’s left. Sometimes, the truth hurts. If there’s anything wrong with this wonderful community, it’s that there’s just too much enabling of bad behavior going on here. Not that comfort isn’t <B>very</B> necessary, but a lot of time people really need a hard shake (or sting) to show them the reality of the situation instead of more hugs. The hugs will always be there, but we’ve got to fix what is wrong too. Marriage<B>Builders,</B> not MarriageCoasters. Coasting along thinking everything would always be great is what got most of us into this situation in the first place.<P>I just don’t feel a <B>true</B> friend would sit back and tell you, “It’s OK Maya... just sit back and true happiness will come to you on a golden platter.” Only you can fix whatever may need fixing within you. Don’t do it for your H, or your kids, but if you’re ever going to interact with another <B>person</B> (and not just a man), then you need to work on making yourself the best Maya you possibly can.<P>------------------<BR>Where the heart is willing, it will find a thousand ways; but where it is unwilling, it will find a thousand excuses.<P><BR>

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