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PM,

My condolences and smypathy on the death of your husband.

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BW - 65
WH - 60
M - 35 years
D-day - 17 Apr 08
DD - 44, DS - 30, DS - 23
H broke contact 11/1/09
Back in love after the worst thing that every happened to us.
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I wondered why we were seeing so much less of you than before...

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One year becomes two, two years becomes five, five becomes ten and before you know it, you've wasted your whole life on a problem you can't solve. That's one way to spend your life. -rwinger

I will not spend my life this way.
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PM....I am so sorry to hear this, hugs and prayers to yourself and family.


"Get busy living, or get busy dying"...... The Shawshank Redemption.
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Thoughts and prayers being sent to you and your family....

{{{{{{{{{{PrincessMeggy}}}}}}}}}}}


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How to Plan B Correctly
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I am so sorry for your loss, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time and during the weeks to come.


Me 44- yes ugggh
WH 47
together 26 years M 19
serial cheater big time
DD1 2.24.11
NC letter sent 3/7/11
NC letter to OW2 april
final truths 5/8-- all of them poly confirmed 5/18
working the plan

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((((((PrincessMeggy)))))

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. You have shown amazing strength and helped many fellow MBers during a difficult time, most of us were unaware.... thankyou we sincerely appreciate your time.

It isn't easy but take each day one step at a time and allow yourself time to grieve and heal. You will feel a wave of emotions that can hit you at any time, be gentle with yourself.

Your husband was lucky to have an amazing wife that valued her marriage, worked to rebuild a wonderful marriage and supported him through his battle with cancer. You are a true MB success story. Thank you for sharing that story, you have been a source of hope for many BS and FWS.

You have a huge MB family here to support you.

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Me 46yrs
WH 46yrs "Isildur"
Married: 22yrs 8mths
DS 9yrs;DD 19yrs;DS 21yrs
Bomb drop:marriage not working don't know if ILY 12.11.11
DD:26.11.11
WH moves to OW house 28.11.11
Formal MB Plan A 14.4.12
Plan B 27.4.12
D:20.7.14

"There are moments in life that make us & set the course of who we become. Sometimes they're little & subtle,sometimes they're big & we never saw them coming. No one asks for their life to change, but it does. It's what we do afterwards that counts & we find out who we are."
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Hugs and prayers to you, sweet PrincessMeggy. Wish I could be there in person to help you!


"Your actions are so loud that I can't hear a word you're saying!"

BW M 44 yrs to still-foggy but now-faithful WH. What/how I post=my biz. Report any perceived violations to the Mods.
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Oh, Meggy. My heart is broken for you. frown Words are never adequate at times like this, but know that so many people are praying for your comfort and peace in knowing that you and your husband had a love that embraced good times, conquered hard times and survived to become steadfast and complete Love.

Be at peace, sweet Meggy. I know you'll miss your husband, but God's Plan is perfect, and this is part of His Plan. Rest assured that your husband is in a fine and wonderful place right now.


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Thank you Marriage Builders!

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So so sorry.

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Princess Meggy, my thoughts and prayers are with you.


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Princess Meggy,

You have my deepest sympathy for the loss of your dear husband. You have been such a staple here at MB, and I hope that you can feel the love that extends beyond this keyborad that you have given of yourself over the years. Many prayers to you and your family, my friend. (((Meggy))))

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I am very sorry for your loss

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So sorry..........

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peace to you.







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Dear PM

the prayers of our family are with you and your family and friends at this difficult time.

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PM,

You and your H did truly have an amazing story of recovery. Such an inspiration!

Prayers and condolences, my friend!

(((((((((((((((PM)))))))))))))))))))


"The #1 reason why people give up so quickly is because they tend to look at how far they still have to go, rather than how far they've gotten."

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M - 21 yrs & counting
D (20)
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Surviving and Thriving since November 2010 thanks to MB!
My Recovery Thread: http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2538986#Post2538986
My Original Thread: http://forum.marriagebuilders.com/ubbt/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2457141&page=1

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(((Princess Meggy)))


Me,BW - 42; FWH-46
4 kids
D-Day #s1 and 2~May 2006
D-Day #3~Feb.27, 2007 (we'd been in a FR)
Plan B~ March 3 ~ April 6, 2007

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You and your family are in our prayers.

(((((((((((((Princess Meggy))))))))))


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Thank you everyone! Im wiped out tonight so I won't share all the details tonight. But I will say it was a wonderful service, more than I could have ever hoped or dreamed.

I was sooooo surprised to see a flower arrangement sent by my friends at MB. I am truly blessed.

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In a sense now, I am homeless. For the home, the place of refuge, solitude, love-where my husband lived-no longer exists. Joyce Carolyn Oates, A Widow's Story
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"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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