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Hi... was browsing through some of the threads here - not believing that I need to be here - and came across a comment that I needed an answer to. I didn't want to hijack the thread...
GAMMA posted in #2689899 - 12/11/12 11:27 AM the following...
"Has she ever said, 'I love you but am not in love with you' or some variation on that."
Well, uhhh, my answer to that is, well... yes she has. Should I be worried?
CO-hab, 14 years
DS-13, DD-8
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Hi... was browsing through some of the threads here - not believing that I need to be here - and came across a comment that I needed an answer to. I didn't want to hijack the thread...
GAMMA posted in #2689899 - 12/11/12 11:27 AM the following...
"Has she ever said, 'I love you but am not in love with you' or some variation on that."
Well, uhhh, my answer to that is, well... yes she has. Should I be worried? Welcome to MB. Can you tell us more? Is she hiding her phone? On it a lot? Isn't transparent with you? If she said that to you, yes that's a very huge red flag. Do you have any snooping techniques in place?
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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Please read "Snooping: Is it Wrong"
And visit the board devoted to gathering information surreptitiously.
You have a right to know what's going on in your marriage. You can't fix it if you don't know what's wrong.
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Me: 43 y.o. BFWH, D-day 11/11/09 (NC since 9/01) Divorce from WW final 9/16/10. Current Status: MB-based Marriage to Nature Girl 12/8/12 (first date on 12/11/10) Mine: S(16), D(11) NatureGirls: S(23), D(21) Another EA Story
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Thanks Brainy. 
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Thanks Brainy. You're welcome.
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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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