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Thanks for asking graceful.
The good news is I am filing for divorce and have started proceedings. After not hearing from H in weeks I decided I'd had enough.
Once I started divorce proceedings it was like finally taking off the dark glasses and seeing H for horrible way he'd treated me, which had caused me to become depressed and hopeless.
After I filed, he suddenly became "friendly " again but my mind is made up. I feel much much better than I did in the Spring and my sense of hope had returned.
Never again will I fall for a narcissistic man - twice is enough.
I'll continue to post here once in a while or if I ever meet anyone new after I'm single. I still need MB lessons and most of all how to avoid renters and freeloaders.
thanks everyone for helping me through this. It means a lot to me.
M  I knew you were too clever to go back to that goon!
What would you do if you were not afraid?
"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.
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BB you are an inspiration. When you are ready you might encourage others in similar circumstances as you have been. For example, currently "redhairedlady" has a serious struggle w/what Dr H calls a "monster."
BW 58
WH 61
married 35 years
2 adult children
2 grandchildren
"Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one...It will not be broken, it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable...The only place outside of Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from dangers and perturbations of love is Hell" c.s. lewis
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correction: redheadedlady
Marriage 101: Husband Moving to Texas
BW 58
WH 61
married 35 years
2 adult children
2 grandchildren
"Love anything and your heart will certainly be wrung and possibly broken. If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one...It will not be broken, it will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable...The only place outside of Heaven where you can be perfectly safe from dangers and perturbations of love is Hell" c.s. lewis
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Blue bird,
If you are ever checking in here ....let us know how you are doing. Happy holidays!
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