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#2803256 05/23/14 04:34 PM
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Many folks here will remember JustPeachy for her wonderfully entertaining posts. Sadly, she died of a massive stroke on October 10, 2013 at age 44. She was a good friend to many of us on facebook and offline for years. We have been wondering about her absence recently. We discovered last night that she died.

Please pray for her surviving family members. Rest in peace, my dear friend.


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So sorry to hear this ... may she rest in peace after a long hard struggle, and may God bless all of her family and loved ones.


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I am shocked and saddened to hear this. Peachy became a friend to me offline. She was tremendously supportive when I had my last D Day in 2011. She really helped me to pull through that dreadful time.

She was so funny and intelligent, and a wonderful mother, and stunningly beautiful. I know she found happiness in the years before she died. My prayers are for her dear son and loving husband. Rest in peace dear Peachy.

(Peachy also posted under the names Peachyisback and everafter2010 - 2010 being the date of her new marriage.)


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This is so sad to hear frown God bless and protect her grieving family ...


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JustPeachy-- such a kind, compassionate, intelligent woman.

Taken from us way too soon!

Prayers for her grieving family.



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I remember reading many of her posts when I first came to MB. She will be very missed.


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Very sad news. We stayed in contact offline and I hadn't heard from her...now I know why. frown

RIP Peachy. You will be missed.


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very sad, such a young woman

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I remember her. She was very brave, a real fighter and a class act.

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Wow. This is crazy. I haven't been here in forever and I randomly thought of her tonight (we weren't close, just thought of her name) and Googled her MB name and saw your post ML. I remember her high energy and last I remember she remarried. Did that work out for her? I hope she had at least a few years of happiness after the storm.

Glad to see you're still going strong ML(!!), you were like a big sister to me when I first arrived here and I appreciate it! I was so lost, scared, adrift, and just the thought that there was someone out there who seemed to care and had back was what I clung to when I had nobody else (or so it seemed). Many, many thanks! :-)



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hi Shattered! Yes, she did have a very happy marriage the last couple of years of her life.

Hope you are doing well. Great to see you!


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This is just tragic.
I'm so very sad to hear this...

Prayers for her little boy....

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How have I only just seen this? Peachy taught me how to fight, how to stand up for what is right.. How to place the shame of betrayal in its rightful place and be proud of who you are. I was a little girl before I met Peach. One day I will see her again and until then I carry her with me...



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