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Personally I would have a big problem if my husband were to have an attractive female working closely with him, whether or not she was married. Many affairs take place in the workplace, since coworkers spend so much time together.

The only way I would feel comfortable in that situation is with a keylogger on both the work and home computers and phone and probably a VAR in the office.

ML's right; your marriage comes before any workplace security system.


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I was able to get a hold of his phone and search emails and messages. I found no personal text messages, voice mails, or phone calls between my husband and this co-worker.

I did read the job offer/description email copied to HR, and another email to HR confirming a new employee, and an email from the woman to my husband thanking him the interview.

Timeline is a problem. The two out of the three emails were sent the week before he notified me of all of this: the job description email and thank you email. The Letter of Acceptance email was sent last week when he told me.

This saddens and angers me because he was not radically honest with me. I have been very upfront and vocal about my feelings. I now know she was probably offered the job when he told me of her inquiry/interview for the job.

I have not put spyware on his phone due to the fact the iCloud app. is not activated on his phone. I am not savvy enough to know how to deal with this and what it would mean for me to activate it. I will continue to research...

I will also continue to snoop his phone regularly. This woman will not be staring work until the end if the month. Feeling disappointed and confused.





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