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Whether or not the red flags are recent or a pattern...do not ignore them and try to be "friendly." Good intentions and ignoring signs of potential harm can have dire consequences.

https://www.yahoo.com/parenting/my-husband-killed-our-kids-112544391037.html


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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.

We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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You should post this on Please Wear My Shoe's thread. Very often a man who wishes to go through with a suicide attempt to punish the wife will kill the children too.


What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.

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I did.


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Prisca, the link is odd. Shows more than just this thread. dontknow


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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.

We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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Wait, no I didn't. Fixed that.


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cool


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Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.

We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
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Indie, I am sharing your post here too...so it doesn't get lost in just one poster's thread.

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Some examples of men who committed suicide because their wife or partner was not allowed to leave. Oh they also killed the kids too to exert control over her even after death.

http://www.theguardian.com/uk/2006/nov/05/ukcrime.lornamartin

Tragic and very sad...and in the case of the Courts failing to protect...double puke


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exWH - serial cheater
2 awesome kids
Divorced 12/2011




Many a good man has failed because he had a wishbone where his backbone should have been.

We gain strength, and courage, and confidence by each experience in which we really stop to look fear in the face... we must do that which we think we cannot.
--------Eleanor Roosevelt
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What a heartless and gruesome act! Psychiatric disorders could really make someone mad enough to kill the most important people in their lives. It's pays to be aware of the different signs and symptoms of these disorders so we know to seek help asap to protect our kids. Prayers for her family...


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