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Is there any way to spy on the stock samsung browser? Through google I can see searches and youtube videos watched, but I cannot see what websites he is visiting. That's the only browser he uses on his phone, I could never get him to switch. He's also clearing his history on that browser again.

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Originally Posted by Luna42
Is there any way to spy on the stock samsung browser? Through google I can see searches and youtube videos watched, but I cannot see what websites he is visiting. That's the only browser he uses on his phone, I could never get him to switch. He's also clearing his history on that browser again.


Does he connect to the wifi network when he is at home? If he does, you will be able to set the router to collect the website information for his phone's IP address.

Better still would be to install spyware directly on the phone. Then you will be able to see everything. Take a look here for some recommended apps http://www.bestphonespy.com/ Install the app on your phone first to make sure it is not detectable. Try it out to make sure it does exactly what you need. That way you can act quickly when you are able to get access to his phone.


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He does use wifi at home. Is there a guide anywhere about setting the router? Right now he is on a business trip though. He's searched for two things I've confronted him about before. I wish I could see the sites he's visiting.

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Originally Posted by Luna42
He does use wifi at home. Is there a guide anywhere about setting the router? Right now he is on a business trip though. He's searched for two things I've confronted him about before. I wish I could see the sites he's visiting.


The settings you need to use will depend on what router you have. First you will need to set a static IP address for his phone. You should easily be able to do that in any router. Then you will set the router to collect the website information for that IP. How you do that will depend on the router you have, Google will tell you.

But remember, that will only give you the hits when he is on the wifi network. If he is using cellular data, that will not be stored on your router. That is why I suggested you install spyware. Any reason why that would not work?


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No reason, other than money. Don't know if I should even bother now. He's looked up escorts and asian massage parlors and there was a charge for $102 for the hotel across the road from his.

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I'm so sorry Luna. You need to end this.


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Originally Posted by living_well
I'm so sorry Luna. You need to end this.



I'm thinking so :-( I just wish I had solid proof, it would make it so much easier.

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Originally Posted by Luna42
Originally Posted by living_well
I'm so sorry Luna. You need to end this.



I'm thinking so :-( I just wish I had solid proof, it would make it so much easier.


Hi Luna, why don't you start a thread in the surviving an affair forum? You will get lots of great support and advice for what you are going through.


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Originally Posted by Luna42
Originally Posted by living_well
I'm so sorry Luna. You need to end this.



I'm thinking so :-( I just wish I had solid proof, it would make it so much easier.


If either of these things happened I'd come home to find Prisca had changed the locks:
1. $102 charge for hotel across the street from me
2. I stay in a hotel overnight without Prisca


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Hire a PI to follow him while on one of these trips.


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Originally Posted by Prisca
Hire a PI to follow him while on one of these trips.


Or follow him!


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