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Sorry! I couldn�t remember my username or which email I used!
We are married, have been for 5 years.
I closed the business and finally found a job, that had been a huge issue with plan b. I also developed Some serious health issues and dealing with that kept me out of state at specialists most of spring and summer.
I have read the what to do with an angry husband and the plan b thread. My initial plan had been to file for divorce, go no contact, and just be done. I�ve been considering today going in to plan b with the �requirement� of us reconciling being the following-
- anger management program
- treating his depression and anxiety
- being involved in the men�s accountability group in our church for porn and anger issues (I�m willing to not be involved in anything other than the youth program as long as plan b is ongoing)
- financial counseling
- finishing some home improvement projects
In six months I�d like to set up separate sessions with a marriage builders counselor and see if they think we are ready to start dating. If he hasn�t done anything on the list I�ll file at that point. If he�s working on things I�ll wait another 3 months in plan b and do the same thing. I�m moving in with my parents and I�m close enough to date him. I plan to date for at least three months prior to me moving back in.
I�m not comfortable with him being alone with our son in the house at this point. I�m proposing that he come to my parents set times when I�m out of the house.
I�m also considering using my dad as an IM.
Am I being realistic?