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Hello friends I have been together with my wife for 19 years I have not been perfect in the past. So 3 months ago , she told me that she wants some freedom. So she has female coworkers and 2 gay friends from work, all single she gets real well with all of them. So the gay friend ,text her if she wants to go out and drink and she agrees. I have and app ,to track her. I text her and ask her where she was at shes like I'm in this place next to this place like a restaurant. but I see on the app she inside this apartment . the gay guy place. so after she comes home she change her story and did told me that she end up going to the gay guy place . i do not know at the first place she didn't told me straight out . also we have 3 kids older 17 all 3 , we haven't gone to Halloween horror nights yet but I found a text on her phone she is all ready making plans to go to horror nights with her friends .?? she sees that I get upset but she does not stop . but tells me everyday that she loves me so much and she ask that I do not judge her friends cause at the end of the day she knows how the are and that she is not doing nothing wrong ? but I ask my self what marriage guy will be ok for her wife to be inside alone in this gay guy place . please advised is this ok or not ?


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Welcome to MB.

Is this something that she has done in your marriage before? Has she had single friends before that she goes out with? Have you met these friends? Why don’t you go with her?

Is there any history of affairs on either side before in your relationship?


FWW/BW (me)
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.




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