Hi Susie,<P>Gee, it sure is slow on here today....Oh wait...it's Christmas Day. "Normal" people aren't on the puter today! LOL<P>I'm real sorry you're so down. You can defineatley put me down for some prayers that your situation turns out ok. With your obvious remorse, I think you guys have a good shot. There's a lot of guys on this site that would give their left er, never mind, for their wayward W's to just stop the damn affair...never mind act like they're a little sorry for it.<P>My W had a brief affair and is now pregnant with OM's child. Never in my wildest dreams would I have EVER thought I could tolerate such a thing! But my W confessed, dumped OM and insists she will never contact him again (he doesnt know about child). I came within inches of leaving her, but we're working it out and eagerly awaiting "our" sons birth. And, yes, my mother (and the few others that know) think I'm crazy to stay with her. Interestingly, my father, is being supportive (for the first time in my memory, lol) of my decision to stay with W. I AM crazy...in love with her. I'm NOT blameless in this mess either. <P>With me, her remorse was key. So, give your H plenty of room, continue to be remorseful (dont overdo it, tho) and if he loves you half as much as I do my W, you guys can get through this. Be prepared for him to throw your A in your face for a good while though....try not to let it get you down. The guy's hurtin BAD.<P>Sorry you've had such a crummy Christmas....and I'll pray hard that you and H will have a wonderful Christmas 2001 together!<P>Hang in there, lady.<P>Lou