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I feel a mounting hoplessness in this whole nasty situation. I don't know if she is still seeing the other guy, but it's eating me up inside. I need God and support from prayers and other christians through this dark corridor of betrayal and pain.
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I know how you feel. Pray to the Lord for an end to jealousy, even though of course you have a "right" to be jealous. Think of your wife's soul and not her body. Push away those jealous thoughts and the anger they bring and ask the Lord to have mercy on her soul, which is in GREAT danger.<p>Humble yourself before the Lord and ask Him to show you how to change YOURSELF. When the Lord is almost finished with you, He will start to bring her around but you are first.<p>(We all need some fixing in some ways but we can't do it alone.)<p>I hope you have a support system for prayer. Try not to talk about her in a bad way - I made this mistake again and again and it only slows down the healing. Build her up in your mind and in your words. The Lord will call her home in His PERFECT timing.<p>God bless your prayers -
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Rob, Tryingtohope is right. You are right to seek prayer from others, too.<p>Lord, we lift up Rob's M before You and seek Your healing to flow into his broken heart and his W's wayward spirit. Open her eyes to see the truth and light and restore their M. We pray it will be stronger and better than ever. <p>Father, please give Rob great hope and peace in You. Raise up an army of intercessors to intervene in this situation.<p>Thank You for hearing and answering prayer.
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