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#347606 12/06/04 09:19 AM
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It's been a busy week, I'll leave the details unspoken, but it seems to me WW is angry and out of control in some ways, so pray for the both of us. Her anger is also present in SD, but thankfully me and YD seem to be more mellow.

Pearl Harbor day is our pre-trial, and I really don't want WW anymore, so if God wants us to remain married, He now has two or three hearts to touch, that of the both of us, plus SD's heart since she seems angry as well.

I just want out, I want out of debt, and I want more access to YD.

So I'm asking that you all pray that God's will is done. I don't think that what I've ever asked for is outside of God's will, but what do I know. I've been so wrong before, and I'll probably be wrong again.

The judge will probably ask us to talk, and we'll see how that goes.

I just want peace and closure, if the marriage is over, then let's just get it over as painlessly as possible to avoid hurting each other and the children.

Desperately seeking God's will.

TB

#347607 12/06/04 09:26 PM
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Tony,

It's good to hear from you. I'll be praying for you. If the judge asks you two to talk, I'll be praying that you have a healthy discussion. I'll also be praying that God melts the anger in your SD & W's hearts.

I'm not sure either what God's will is for you, my friend, but I'm sure He has something fantastic planned for you in your life. Sometimes what seems like a tragedy can be turned into a blessing. Look at Joseph. When his brothers meant to do harm, God turned it out to be in Joseph's favor. So don't be discouraged Tony. I'm sure something great lies in your future.

Love in Christ,
Y

#347608 12/07/04 12:05 PM
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Praying for you also.

God Bless,
Richard

#347609 12/07/04 12:48 PM
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We came to an agreement today, we'll be divorced by year end.

I don't want to fight, if she wants to go, then she can go.

She gets her portion of the debt, I get time with YD. Neither of us gets as much as we want, but I think we both want it over.

So I'll be free in less than 21 days, give or take.

TB

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(((Java)))

You are all in my prayers tonight.

I agree with Standing, that God will bring something good from this.
He will somehow turn it all around for good.

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Hugs to you, Tony. {{{{{{{{TONY}}}}}}}} I can imagine how difficult this must be for you.

Love in Christ,
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#347612 12/10/04 08:39 AM
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Tony,

I'm sorry to hear about your situation. You, and your family, are in my prayers.

God Bless,
Richard


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