Dr. Harley suggested that I ask on this site about a program for the computer that tracks keystrokes - he said someone would probably know...<BR>Thanks!!!!

OK...<P>Check out...<A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum28/HTML/000480.html" TARGET=_blank>"Snoop Tricks for Betrayed Spouses"</A><P>I personally used (and still like for monitoring my kids) WinGuardian from WebRoot (www.webroot.com)...<BR>...I think it was less than $40.00<P>Be careful with these software programs...<BR>...the more information you find<BR>...the harder it becomes to effectively deal with new discoveries<BR>... that "you can't handle the truth" thing can be <B>very</B> real!!!<P> <P>Jim

Keystroke detector software called Spector available at <A HREF="http://www.tucows.com" TARGET=_blank>www.tucows.com</A> and at <A HREF="http://www.spectorsoft.com." TARGET=_blank>www.spectorsoft.com.</A> <P>PS: Listen to NSRs warnings.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Scandinavian<BR>scandinavian@my-deja.com

Thank you, Jim, and Scandinavian:<BR>And, yes, I will heed warning about finding out info I do not want to know...<BR>Thanks - A

Ann<BR>I used Spector, its very good and easy to use, and NO ONE can detect it in stealth mode. I didn't know about it prior to D-day but my mind was playing tricks on me and I became so suspicous during the recovery time that I did all sorts of things. My W pretty much made it through recovery w/o a hitch, only one call from OM, he is was very cooperative and did not pursue W after d-day.<BR>I installed Spector in Oct 99, I also now used it for the kids internet use, kids are kids and I got teens. The net is so tempting and easy to getin. Its a great tool, and <BR>If I had this prior to D-day and captured some e-mails I am sure things might have been different. I knew my W's email password is how i discovered the E.A. , she is not too net or PC literate and I set up the account months prior to the EA never thinking I would have to get in and snoop, glad I did. Saved our marriage, I figure it was about 2 weeks out from moving to a PA. <BR>Anyway...yes be careful...<BR><P>------------------<BR>jnvc