Losing_Hope,

Saw one of your posts on JFO, and wanted to let you know I have often wondered how you were doing, as it was like you dropped off the face of the earth, or MB anyway!

Sorry to hear that you have gone through so much trauma in the last year. I had hoped for a good recovery for you, you seem so strong and together.

Don't have much advice, just wanted to tell you I am praying for you and hope things work out.

Maybe it is time for a full plan B so WS will feel the full impact of his choices. Hope you are feeling better after the weekend.

Love in Christ,
Miss M

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How are you?

Love in Christ,
Miss M

Miss M

Thanks for asking after me. I dropped off the board for a while. Just needed to get away for a bit. H and I tried again a few times (did 2 plan B's) and I guess I wanted to have something good to post. That hasn't worked as he keeps letting me down and quitting on us.

When I wsas posting regularly, I became almost adicted to the site and spent way too much time on it. Now I just lurk a bit. I do look out for you when I am on the board but haven't seen you for ages. I did worry after my last thread that you had stoped posting, I am glad to see you haven't. I must admit that I was put off for a while, but I am much stroinger and happier now.

I am actually feeling really good. I know I am a better pereson for all that has happened. I feel sorry for my h, but he is old enough to make his own choices so its up to him! Ow is a huge influence on him and he sees her as his teacher and his best friend now. I hope that one day, he will see what has happened and be able to see through her lies, control and manipulation and see her for what she really is. She still contacts me from time to time to throw it all in my face which is hard, but I resist doing the same to her. If she thinks that the things my h says to her are not also being said to me then she is very sad and misguided!

I hope that my h is moving out soon, then I can get on with my life and start to have some fun (no men though). Not yet at least!

How are you doing?

lh

<small>[ July 03, 2003, 11:28 AM: Message edited by: Losing_hope ]</small>

LH,

Got your E-mail address, so you can edit your post now.

Sorry it took so long to reply, but I have been working way too much lately. I took today off because I am too tired for words.

Thanks so much for your reply. I understand how hard it is for you right now. It's hard to talk about things sometimes, yes?

Takes a lot for me to post about any of my situation.
Let me know when you get this so I can edit also.

Hang in there LH. Am praying for you. IMVHO you need to plan B. I know it's all very complicated because of the business you and WS have together, perhaps now is plan B time again? Why can't he leave now, you need a break I think.

Love in Christ,
Miss M

<small>[ July 03, 2003, 08:42 PM: Message edited by: Miss M ]</small>

Miss M

Thanks for your reply. I have your email address and will mail you. I agree plan b becons. I wish he would move out today, but he won't. Plan b will give me space to decide what I want. I have been at his beck and call for way too long.

Speak later

lh